Blog : Masters vs. Mistresses and finding my needs are different..how about you,

7131 posts
10/5/2023 5:03 am

Masters vs. Mistresses and finding my needs are different..how about you,

Now this may seem like an odd blog.

And no doubt the majority of you ONLY want a Master or Mistress..

But no doubt there are some that desire both..if not even a Dominant couple.

So I thought I'd ask...and if so how do Masters and Mistresses differ to you..

Are they interchangeable...or is there a huge difference..

My opinion:

With a Domme...
I believe I want it to be less sexual..I had my fair share of older Domnes of late and the desire for a " relationship" was still heavy in the air..

I feel what I really need instead is a " strict aunt " type..

Someone who enjoys exerting control,treating a slave as a slave and yeah..would enjoy heavily disciplining a male..

I feel like I need to get away from the dude oriented Femdom kinks like strapons,chastity,male milking..things that are heavily sexual.

And instead focus on more traditional lifestyle things like service,pain,etc..

With a Master?

By the very nature..I think it would be more sexual...more sexually focused..

But with a Master I wouldn't want a drill instructor type..

I wouldn't want that strict authority.

I'd want more of a father knows best type,someone into say objectification,pain..using a slave

But is warm and fuzzy throughout the process.

I would be cool with an actual relationship outside of play..

likesmatures 55M

4863 posts
10/5/2023 5:05 am

And like I wrote...

This situation may not be for you...

But I feel like I need something different from a man vs a Woman that Dominates

likesmatures 55M

4863 posts
10/5/2023 5:17 am

And no offense to the ladies..your wonderful..

But it's just my experience that women in the lifestyle..esp as they mature...

Want to throttle back on sex,make it less of the whole package..

And I feel that void could be filled by going deeper into various lifestyle aspects..pain is just an example..

Basically making it less about sex and making it more about control..

With guys?? I just feel it will always be sexually focused and..therefore I don't need someone so strict..
I'm not a fan of the term " daddy"...But something more along that line

boh99 68M

3171 posts
10/5/2023 9:08 am

just a fantasy here, but I'd want to know that what I did for them gave them pleasure, so I suppose that would be more sexual


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