Blog : Gonna start a new series of blogs about explaining lifestyle shit

7130 posts
10/6/2023 4:59 am

Gonna start a new series of blogs about explaining lifestyle shit

One of the main problems of the lifestyle is how closed off it is.

NOBODY SHOWS YOU SHIT
Nobody wants to take someone under their wing ( unless being honest..she..is like 20 yrs old).

If your a dude,old,black ( just bring honest based on my experience locally) you will be ignored at munches,groups,hell play parties..

So I thought I'd do my little part and craft a series of blogs explaining things,why I enjoy them,what people get out of them .

This idea came to me as I was on fet and looking at this Dommes set of pics.

And while the actions depicted seemed very natural to me..

To others? They probably wouldn't understand.
Without someone giving them some insight, I doubt this person would even try it..

Whereas I am quite open and kinky..there are things that I've never done or an expert at.

So I appreciate when readers chime in and help further the discussion

And honestly there is so many topics to cover..I'm even open to readers suggestions or questions..

Topics could range from something simple like..
Dom or slave..how did you choose
How do you meet lifestyle people

To what does it feel like to be naked in front of women,a group and then be demoed on..
What does a cane feel like..how does it differ from a paddle or flogger..
Why do you like pain..

To specific fetishes...why do you like to be pegged..what about feet interest you...what is cbt etc..

To even sexual interest...like how do men differ from women as tops...what's it like to suck a dick..
What's it like to be a pussy/ oral slave to a Domme..

likesmatures 55M

4868 posts
10/6/2023 5:01 am

I just feel people would actively explore more lifestyle things if they had some guide..some mentor..
Someone to explain shit to them..

Like I'm leo..I'm a slave and this is the reason behind it

sissy_sally_69 54M

261 posts
10/6/2023 5:48 am

I will agree with you on one thing for sure, munches, etc, under the different situations you listed, you WILL be treated like a leper. Been there, done that. I gave up trying to get involved in the local community because of that exact reason.

The absolutely hysterical part is that they constantly claim how welcoming they are.

I, as a single male at the time, and being on my absolute best behavior in a vanilla setting and environment, not acting like I was there to hook up, etc. was essentially ignored.

A couple of very brief Hi's was the best I got.

I also once went to a group play party with an ex, and the exact thing happened. I'm not going to get into the gory details about her ignoring me as well, but suffice it to say, yeah it happens. All I got to do was watch peoples scenes and wander around aimlessly. In the end I was sorry that I talked her into going one last time in the first place.

And then if you give up after a few attempts, the general consensus is that you were never really serious and just there looking to hook up.

They still gossip on line so that's how I know lol.

likesmatures 55M

4868 posts
10/6/2023 5:57 am

Well being real

In kc..? The lifestyle community was very white.

I saw first hand a few black guys attended the group meetings..never once did I see anyone run up and introduce themselves..

Never did I see a group leader warmly welcome them..

And yeah after a few times of being ignored...

They stopped coming..

Now I look back and feel that was a shitty thing to do...

But then again

I'm male..slave..very bi headed gay ...

And no one welcomed me either..


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