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Adult conversations..let's talk about sensual domination..is it real..is it satisfying I decided to take sometime today to blog about sensual Domination. I feel like it gets lost in the shuffle,isn't talked about and is pushed in the corner. Those practicing as sensual Dominants may not even be seen as "Dominant" by others in the community. I know I was guilty of that. But I've come full circle on that and see things differently now. To me the roll of a slave isn't to engage in my desires,do what I want to do kinkwise. Rather my job is to enable others so they can actively live out their kinky desires. So yeah there really is no need now for whips,pain,objectification.. Once one realizes this really is about control and a power exchange.. And that comes in alot of wonderful flavors.. Including sensual Domination.. So what is sensual Domination.,? Some may assume it's "bedroom play.".fuzzy cuffs and cheap toys from an adult book store.. To me a sensual Domme is someone that enjoys various elements of the lifestyle.. But really is turned off by others...such as harsh discipline,humiliation, etc To them this really isn't about pain...it is about control. And just because a person labeled themselves as " soft" or sensual Domme doesn't mean they aren't strong,a take charge,empowered Women. Let's be honest guys..we can be pushy...whether in the vanilla world or even in the lifestyle...we want sex..we want kink...and if we don't get some Then we look for someonelse..women are faced with the choice to put out or go back to their cats and tiktok The lifestyle sorta turns that dynamic on its head and puts the Woman in control. Sensual Domination is so cool because it allows a Woman to dictate the relationship.. Without forcing her to take on his kinks or enter into roles that would make her feel uncomfortable. She gets to define her role as Dominant instead of letting the lifestyle or even men.. Define it Sensual Domination let's the Woman mold the male to her particular needs.. For example..show me any other personals site where a Woman desires a man.. But then list she doesn't want,need his penis..penetration..as some older woman dont Yet? She doesnt hestitate and proudly types she would luv a " pussyboy" to service her orally.. Let that sink in...guys no sex but you get all the pussy you can lick.. Where else can a Woman be so bold as to list exactly what she needs from a man.. And then to get one and keep him just for that.. Without having to put out Without him whining,demanding or walking away to some other woman.. The lifestyle is the only place that gives women these options and the power to enforce them. And let's be honest...not every woman is brash and bold.. Domination is about control... And being in control of a certain male. Sensual Domination allows a Woman to take a step back from the lifestyle and just breathe..go at a slower pace Maybe she likes a guy from work or some guy online or even enjoys reading his blog.. For some it's a huge leap from contacting him,talking with him,even meeting up.. To..yeah..lol.. Him now undressing as she stands before him with cuffs in her hands.. With a simply click of the bracelets he is now nude and helpless before her To some something so simple as the male now naked and in her charge is... Empowering and life changing...a game changer..perhaps even a life saver ( maybe there is more to life than cats,complaining on tiktok). Maybe there is a " different" type of male out there..one she can use,control and get what she needs... So yeah maybe she thought the idea of finding a bf was impossible.. But now? Maybe she can consider a slave instead...and have a relationship where she is in charge,defining what she needs from him Quick real life example..writing Domme is shy,sensual.. She wrote a chapter in her book about the Domme tieing up the slave in the shower.. And I'm pretty bold..why not I said.. And for someone shy to now have a fantasy become a reality was jaw dropping... A naked guy now actually in her shower..his hands bound as the water cascades down his back. She holds a sponge and has access to his whole body. And yeah going into every area.. that was quite the power exchange.. |
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Sorry to be so long winded.. Hopefully you got the notion that the lifestyle doesn't have to be about whips,hurting some one or being mean.. It literally can be about a Woman finally having control over a male and a relationship.. Without society,men defining it for her.. The lifestyle opens doors for Women and shows them they do have options.. Not only say sexually.. But also how a male is viewed/ treated in this relationship..he can just be a boyfriend or the household gimp And as someone that belongs to a FLR( female led relationship) group..it's interesting to hear most of the women don't desire the whole deep Femdom thing.. It's like they want a male but also want options.. I think sensual Domination is a great way for alot of Women to experience these options.. And yeah meet that male that would get naked,be tied up and let you have fun
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secretly, I'd love for a woman to tell me how to please her, to be able to say "Just tell me where to kiss"
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My point is simple..for some just having a guy you can call To come over,get naked and submit.. Is a power exchange And that is all they need.. So no need to judge. But there are alot of different pathways to the lifestyle
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