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Writing about cbt..is cbt still in the closet?? Let be honest..cbt is really the red headed step of bdsm land. If dudes didn't bring it up... Would it just die off.. I mention yesterday that I still like the surreal meeting the real in a story.. Well what could be more surreal to most people Cbt is the surreal element...the hook I need to attract readers.. Cause everyone would enjoy reading about it.. Even if they didn't want to do it or have it done to them.. And we all experienced this at say a convention.. A Domme will be demoing cbt..people will gather out of curiosity.. People will stay for the entertainment. For the wonder of seeing the Domme actually busting his balls.. Only to scurry back to the comfort of their hotel beds at night.. My job I figure..is to drag this sorta play out of the darkness and make it more relatable.. Make it more accessable..make it less scary and more erotic??? Make the audience understand...whether through my blog or a story.. That cbt isn't a pain thing...you not actually trying to harm/ damage the male.. It's a control thing.. ...cbt probably the easiest,most natural way for someone to experience what it's like to have complete control over a male One doesn't need expensive toys,one doesn't need years of experience, one doesn't need to be in the lifestyle or join the local dungeon. Cbt is such a unique type of play Because ball pain is so different than any other sorta discipline. Here's an example.,, you can swing a heavy paddle hard and may even bruise my ass. But you may not get that instant satisfaction you crave. Chances are I may not flinch,I may not even let out a sound. Most likely it will take a series of blows to wear me out physically and emotionally break me down..just to Get me to that responsive stage you desire.. Let's be honest..you want to see the slave jump,make those wonder groans and moans with every good lick of that paddle..you get pleasure out of seeing him react to your stimuli..it makes you feel powerful But more so...you want him to surrender to it...you want him to realise who is in charge Which is wonderful for both parties...but you might feel tired after tanning that ass.. And chances are you probably left some deep marks.. No harm done..sometimes to make an omelette you have to break some eggs..sometimes to get what you need out of a slave you might have to put a lot of yourself into it.. And I'm not bashing those that do enjoy pushing a male while disciplining him. I'm actually cool with being bruised etc. But your probably done for the night and won't go back for another round. Cbt is different because the slightest blow..say from a wooden spoon to the testicles.. Gives this instant gratifying response out of the male..he instantly reacts. If i had to describe the pain?... It isn't like whipping or paddling...it's more like electoshock.. It's brief,it's overwhelming, its very little effort on her part.. Oddly enough the pain associated with the balls tends to be more mental of a process. Paddle my ass and the pain is focused there. Tap my balls and instantly the pain is registered in my brain.. It tells me instinctively to " surrender"..collapse into a ball at her feet and try to protect the testicles. So one gets this instant emotional rush from quickly defeating the bigger,strong male. It's wonderful to see him instantly humbled so... Do a few rounds of cbt and the male become very obedient and quick to obey any command. The same reaction that might take you 10,20,30??? Blows with a paddle.. And even if she does wish to be more aggressive or get in a good hard shot that floors the male.. Like we all enjoyed on America's funniest home videos..dad gets a whiffle ball to his nuts.. The pain isnt long lasting..maybe a minute? or injury causing...it's more like knocking the wind out of his sails...his first reaction is to crumble into a ball.. But..give the male a second to catch his breathe..and she can see he is perfectly fine And he gladly resumes the position.. So she continue cbt through out the night.. AND I'll add that I'm not suggesting you can't injure a guy..through cbt But then again there is absolute no reason to literally bust his balls. Use common sense,get to know the male and how he reacts.. And gauge your play accordingly. Remember cbt is not meant to be a wham,bamm,thank you Ma'am sorta play.. It is more of a long satisfying drawn out torture on the male...make him willingly get back into position for yet another tap,slap,punch to his balls It's more of a control type of play....keeping the Dominant in complete control and luving him under your control. I just feel cbt gets a bad ..so many people wait years before trying it. When I say it most likely should be their first experience when it comes to control,power exchanges,one gender controlling the other, exploring options like a Female Lead Relationships. Like I said..it's easy,it's cheap,it's powerful,if done by reasonable sane people..there are no marks,No harm,No damage.. And the play is quite universal..it can be just playful.. It can be embraced by soft Dommes.. And it can be enjoyed by sadist |
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I find it funny how people run out and buy hundreds of dollars worth of fetish things.. When a simple hand is all one needs to easily.. And I do mean easily..control a male slave. A slap to the cock..a slap to the balls works wonders.. And like I said..for anyone that isn't into pain or doesn't want to hurt someone.. This isn't bullwhipping someone. It's completely different A light tap..a slap of the hand to the testicle is honestly enough to " engage his survival/ animalistic instincts).. His brain will tell him to " turtle",hide,surrender to you.. If you keep exploring cbt...you'll soon understand that this pain isn't " real".. ..he is acting instinctively to centuries of males getting hit in the testicles. It's more mental than physical. He thinks it should " hurt" society tells him that it should hurt..should not be desired ..So it does.. But it was just a simple slap..and he needs to get passed this The more he is trained/ conditioned to take...the more you get over this ancient hurdle.. And the easier it is to engage in this type of play with him. Chances are he will warmly embrace cbt and get to luv this.. So called pain. Remember the point of cbt is it's less effort,less work,less tiring on the Dominant.. She doesn't have to be Billy bad ass..a 65 yr old woman could easily humble a 30yr old man via she. Cbt in my opinion is supposed to be arousing,fun,a hours lasting torment. Plus unlike spanking,whipping etc.. She doesn't even have to be focused solely on the male or cbt to do cbt.. She could attach say attach an acrylic ball press to the male...keep him under her complete control while doing other things.. Which frees up her hands,gives her breaks,let's her grab some wine and enjoy her handywork
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And sure I manly addressed this to a Domme/ slave audience.. But cbt is also very popular in the lgbtq crowd... And is quiet normal between guys...if anything I believe men are more geared towards it,more accepting of it.. And it's not a biggie to bust his balls... Without seeing it as a Master/ sub thing..if anything I think a lot of gay guys are hestitant to label things like spankings,cbt as bdsm It's just something guys enjoy...
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but cbt must be done carefully because even what may be perceived as a lighttap can cause severe damage
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many years ago as a martial artist, I took a direct shot to the balls - I had about three seconds, and then collapsed. Not for the faint of heart. That's for sure !
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But if you'll notice..esp in tons of porn/ ball busting videos/ ball kicking videos... It's rare to see what you described. If anything the women think they landed " a good kick".. Meaning not too hard..but it will get the reaction the audience desires.. The slave on the ground,clutching his nuts,curled up into a ball. But if you watch closely..the women are sorta dumbfounded??.. Like they want to talk to the camera guy and say wtf?? Why didn't he go down. So they proceed with an kick and maybe even a 3rd kick.. Till finally he goes down.. Now why is this happening..is he superman..is he a painslut? Most likely the male is reacting instinctively and pulling away from her foot upon contact..he's flinching She's making contact but not getting a direct strike.. One has to remember a good ball shot means the testicle usually move in their sack. So this is why kicking a creep in the balls might not be the best way of protecting yourself. You have to catch him soundly..but more important..before he can react.
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