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Men and spankings..grab your coffee for this one The irony of my blog is I lose probably 10 to 20 percent of my readership as soon as I talk about anything gay..some immediately click off BUT oddly enough...I may have found that weird bridge between straight men and the lgbtq.. And it's not bingo.. It's spankings.. And yeah I had to do a double take myself .. Huh??? I've long pondered why do people really care what the gender of a slave is..esp if your having a hard time finding someone or someone to play with. I get sex is a huge factor for some. But for others like myself it is moreso about control,the power exchange. I could serve a Master or Mistress or couple. Anyway..getting back to spankings.. Jump on a spankings personal site and your gonna find what you'd expect..either its a hetero site or it's gay.. Unlike women..it's rare for men to cross the streams. Until apparently now.. And one might think..well these straight guys are really bi or closeted gay men.. But no And that is an odd dynamic to wrap your mind around.. Straight guy spanker on a chair with a paddle..with a naked dude wrapped over his lap.. And apparently it's all about spankings..period. At first I just wanted to brush it off as a fetish.. Like someone into feet..sex,other things aren't required because they are getting to indulge in this behavior.. But oddly I'm thinking spanking is like a form of guy bonding.. A release...maybe like having brandy and cigars in the old days I've never met a straight spanker. But I'll have that opportunity coming up in december..a guy puts on a guy spanking party..no sex..just spankings.. So I'll have to report back. I have a theory though.. I've always said sub guys abuse the lifestyle and use it as a shield.. Like yeah I just got fucked by that strap on or sucked that slave c ock. But I was " channeling my submission". They use play as a way to explore their sexuality. I feel like spankings may be a way for men to bond..without " bonding"...it becoming sexual. It might be a way for men to just feel comfortable together,comfortable with male nudity.. And yeah enjoy a touch...without the panic A top might have to touch the spankee,might have the spankee across his leg, After the spanking there might be some form of aftercare..a hug,a cuddle.. It's not a broke back mountain moment people.. But for men..it's a huge step.. Funny how no one reader into a woman hugging or touching one another.. I think spankings gives men that sorta thing..allows they to be caring It allows one to interact with another male...while still being straight. I also think spankings are cheat code for A lot of guys.. It is portrayed as uber masculine ,there is that spartan/ military vibe to it.. And some ( adults I'm talking about)..enjoy an adult father/ dynamic.. So straight grandpa honestly doesn't see this as a Gay thing.. He grew up in the discipline era,he is getting a chance to relive it.. And the naked male in the corner..is seen as a friend  |
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And like I said..for some..even gay men..this isn't sexual. So maybe it's the modern equivalent of the old " hunting" trip with the guys. It's a bonding thing. And maybe their is hope for men playing with men or the slaves gender not being a big deal.. Either way it's a fascinating dynamic and sorta arousing.. Normally there is no bridge/ connect between men ... But it's sorta fun to think of the possibilities That say the older straight man/ couple down the street Might actually have thoughts of yeah Inviting that single gay guy over and end the night with paddling his ass..
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