Blog : What do people really want out of the lifestyle.

7139 posts
11/23/2023 6:51 am

What do people really want out of the lifestyle.

The more I look the more I see people just circling the lifestyle instead actively engaging in it..

And I wonder why??

Maybe I can crack that nut...serve it up on a plate or in a bottle or into a story..

I used to think the lifestyle was just filled with men that don't get it and are just looking for sex..

Or women looking for $$$..

But that doesn't explain the rest of you..

Especially when you have access to real groups,real people,perhaps real slaves..

Yet continue to float about..

Kc has an online flr group...

Youd think it would be filled with some discussion about such a dynamic..

But alas the group is a ghost town..

Occasionally a dude will post an ad...and the group leader will welcome them..

And then

Silence..

It's akin to a girl boss movie/ say the ,marvels ....female led relationships seem awesome..

But if women arent actively responding,going to these things, breathing life into them..

Then the few guys that actually support this way of life

Can't support them on their own..

So is the lifestyle just a dream for most..something that rattles around a small echo chamber like twitter..

Until we believe the whole world thinks this way..

Why do we float around so..

I know I offered my services up...and got bluntly turned down..

And I don't take it personal..

I'm not jaded..

But it makes me wonder why

We circle.

And if the lifestyle isn't appealing to say women...

What can we change

likesmatures 55M

4874 posts
11/23/2023 6:52 am

Hoping this blog doesn't get censored

ActualizedDom 61M

11/23/2023 6:57 am

Simply put most people are seeking A deep connection

likesmatures 55M

4874 posts
11/23/2023 7:46 am

It's just one of those days when I wonder what do people really want

Is it really bdsm

Or is that a veil.

I'm not saying there aren't people heavily invested in the lifestyle

I'm saying there are tons more just circling

I wonder if they will eventually engage

Or disappear thinking the .lifestyle is no longer for them.

I personally know 2 Dommes that just vanished without a lifestyle trace..

And nobody seemed to notice


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