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likesmatures 55M
7121 posts
12/2/2023 8:56 am
Who do you really want in your mailbox


I ask this question because
I'm so fascinated with that
Eternal clock buried deep inside

The one called

Desire..

I pondered as I looked at personal ads today..

This one Domme told men to be patient cause her mailbox overflows.

And I thought..

No duh...you wrote your very into cbt,anal play,strapons etc

But I wondered if she was truly happy..

No doubt 99.9999999 percent of those emails are from slaves looking to get their fetishes serviced..the so called.. " do me" blys

Instead of understanding

This isn't about you..

That's not what control is about..

I honestly considered just writing her an email.

I'm curious what makes a person tick..

It's like I need to understand.

Yet knowing full well I'm not really what she seeks..

I'd be just another email in the box.

She like a lot of women could just be talking a good game..

But I fear she might not really want control

When she meets someone that

Understands

Her desire.

So I have to ask..

Do you really know what you want in your mailbox

likesmatures 55M
4838 posts
12/2/2023 9:05 am

Just something to ponder..


ActualizedDom 61M

12/2/2023 9:24 am

great question


boh99 68M
3154 posts
12/2/2023 8:25 pm

I always wonder if you're with a domme who you're paying, does anything you do please her, or is it just a job. that's always the thought dilemma.


sissy_sally_69 54M
258 posts
12/3/2023 6:19 am

Another question to ask, after going over tons of messages, do they become tainted? I've seen time and again Dommes complaining about the messages they get and the quality of said messages.

I've often wondered myself, is it worth taking the shot?

Then again, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

boh,

If they're being treated as nothing more than a fetish vending machine, then that's typically what they give back. Quite a few Dommes put a lot of time and effort into things before hand, preparing etc., wanting a person to walk away with a good feeling about the whole thing. Trust me, both sides can sense it and what's going on.



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