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likesmatures 55M
7120 posts
12/4/2023 12:41 pm
Do people really want the experience or just the fantasy


I posted this after reading something on fet..

69 yr old guy is looking for some to tie him up,explore bondage,orgasm control..

Soooooooo if your cynical like me...

Your thinking..good luck..
No way in hell does anyone really reply..

Nope,nada,zilch..not a chance

Then a slightly younger guy replies,explains he's a novice etc..

And then the 69 yr old literally dumps the fantasy barrel on this dude..

Detailing the whole thing ..in ALOT of detail

And I ponder

Bro your 69...you brought up bondage..

Got someone to actually reply

Dumped the equivalent of your literally load on this guy..

You bukatted the fucker

And most likely ghosted him..

But that's my guess..

I ponder

Do people really want to connect

Or are they just living vicariously

Hey no sweat off my brow..

But what if you were that other dude and was sincere

likesmatures 55M
4837 posts
12/4/2023 12:48 pm

And this why I 8 people at times...

Your 69..bro what are you waiting for..

A desire is a desire..keep it in your pants

I learned long ago not to nut your desire on someone..

In the end they get frustrated, you'll never get to experience it and you'll waste 3 or more months just emailing each other. Both avoiding the topic.


Lisaropebunny 50T  
6 posts
12/4/2023 1:40 pm

I think you are right about 90% of the people on Alt. I have found about ten percent of the people are real/experienced/and actually do travel and meet other people. I have learned to limit my correspondence to people with LOTS of experience. I have found that the only way that they were able to obtain that experience was by being real and doing the things that they say they want to do.


meltwill2 72M  
3802 posts
12/4/2023 9:26 pm

    Quoting Lisaropebunny:
    I think you are right about 90% of the people on Alt. I have found about ten percent of the people are real/experienced/and actually do travel and meet other people. I have learned to limit my correspondence to people with LOTS of experience. I have found that the only way that they were able to obtain that experience was by being real and doing the things that they say they want to do.
Your right. I have traveled and met lots. Some good some bad, some experienced and some none. I've had the ghost from some and long lasting friends from others. You just never know. I try and limit any travel to within 50 miles or so and only experienced unless I think there might be a real chance with the person.....otherwise if they can not convince me.....no.



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