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Married men? How do you handle the situation I chose to blog about this topic instead of just replying to another members posting.. I figured I need the room to air out this topic.. Cause it pops up more than you think.. And obviously you can swap out married man for married woman.. But you'll find it's usually the man doing this... I'm not even talking about cheating... I mean a married guy ( both straight,bi,gay) will post an ad looking for.. And they will say it's all good..their partner knows,they have permission..or even.. Gay couples ALOT of times play seperate.. You'll find these ads in both the vanilla and kinky lifestyle.. So how do you broach this topic when a married guy contacts you? |
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I assume they are adults to start. I assume they know what they are wanting to be involved in. It is, in the end, their decision...there choice and understand the possible issues...
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Like I said this is an odd topic because I really don't see ANY ads from straight married Doms looking for dudes.. I can imagine women get the brunt of these text and emails. Yet I can totally sympathize.. Cause the "married gay dude seeking" ..is quite common in lgbt groups on say fet or a gay personal ad site.. And by common..it's not on the DL...these guys are quite open and up front.. And it's not a biggie. Now if you've been reading my blog you know I'm also cool with couple's. I'd luv to be owned by one So you might think I'd be cool with this arrangement. But in my past I always have problems with couples Being honest.. It is usually jealousy on the husband's part because.. I can give the woman something the average dude cant.. And no I'm not talking about the "D".. I'm romantic,I'm sensual,I'm touch orientated,luv foreplay etc..luv eating pussy. I could just cuddle..And then leave Plus if she desires a slave..I'm just far better doing things than her sub hub.. Like strap on.. So I've been with couples yet it went south quick. Sorta soured me on the idea... But you might wanna ask...well what about married guys...that have their wives permission... And he's now into dudes.. For me to get with a married guy it would literally have to be a meet and greet with them both, any sorta anything between us would have to be at their place with her full knowledge.. If not for her viewing pleasure.. Cause I get a couple's need for a dude.. There are also things/ experiences I can give to the hubby that a wife/ woman can't. And I applaud them being responsible and trying to keep this in house.. Instead of the norm where he goes to gloryholes,theaters etc. But like most women...the answer initially would be a no.. Unless she was heavily involved in the process
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Lil fyi.. I actually was involved with an couple.. She straight/ he curious.. And it was a different dynamic for me.. He basically wanted to just admire,touch,play with a guys body.. And well..I'm guessing Fuck his wife..? A common married guy fantasy Well I'm not a top...but she cow girled right up..And went for a ride.. Which honestly..I talk ALOT about bottoming.. But I'm cool with someone riding.. I mean I get aroused easily..why not use it if you want. This is more of the dynamic I'm talking about.. If not the direct involvement..the sex and or play... At least she is comfortable with the arrangement.. And I do believe this arrangement with a straight couple is different than a gay one.. Cause I feel the straight,curious or even bi guy is looking for someone to fill that void.. And the gay guy?? It's just another wed. Night...another dude.
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