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How hard is it to get the D...as a guy I'm off..the coffee is flowing.. I read an ad on fet where this 40 yr old guy was begging for help,tips on why he wasn't connecting with women,etc.. Honestly I could have given him some. I doubt if he would have really processed it.. CAUSE at 40..he was still acting like he was 20.. You want younger,younger don't want you.. You want sex..they want chad,that 10 percent of the male population.. Your not chad Wash,rinse,repeat.. So maybe you've been in a similar boat..And as you turn 40,50,60..hell 70.. Maybe the thought of men has crossed your mind.. Maybe you wondered how hard it is to be with a guy. If so then pull up a couch and let's talk... I don't like to stereotype or generalize people.. But the 40 yr old man " looking" is a common occurrence. And the 40,50,60,70 etc yr old man " looking" for a man is becoming more common. I think the biggest difference in my opinion is ALOT of women from say 30 up are very relationship focused.. Maybe she's never been married or just got divorced or has etc. The 30 something man on the other hand most likely is either bored or is divorced himself and suddenly wants to be that movie " old school"/ wants to go back to his former 20 something. He wants to fuck..anything adult..not nailed down.. And some guys never want to get back on the relationship train cause.. Available women of a certain age come " prepackaged"...they come with ,they come past issues,baggage.. And I'm not bashing women here...a lot of guys/ divorced guys have issues too. It's like asking for the big mac...but finding you have to get the combo... Men? There are single men out there sans .. So what's it like being with a guy?? No I'm not getting into that sexually...unless you really are curious.. But I'll say what guys are like in my next reply |
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First off guys are oddd.. .They literally live on a sliding scale of their sexuality when it comes to other guys.. And yeah most shockingly guys tend to be hypersexual ( no duh).. They will suck a dick like a champ...but will engage the panic button,raise the shields,arms the photons.. If a guy simply touches them.. Like weren't you the dude just deepthtoating? Well yeah..but he'll preface this with..."But i ain't " queer"... So you have this ridiculous range of activities guys will or won't do based on their personal comfort zone and how they perceive such actions now label them.. I find it funny how guys get tripped up in stupid labels.. Who cares This is usually the actions of straight guys as the proceed to curious and may stall out in the bi zone. So yeah you may not only have to deal with such bs.. But you yourself may also have the similar issues. Versus someone like me that is comfortable with a man flirting,hitting on me,touching me.. So that is something to consider when your considering men. But I will say I think men in general are just easier to talk to..I think it's easier for men to bond.. I feel like I can walk up to any man on the street and ask if he watched the game.. If I did that with a woman? I'd been seen as " dangerous",a creep,someone looking for sex..her radar is instantly up and lazers ready to.. But with a dude..the conversation can be non sexual or sexual based on the venue.. I also feel ALOT of men are in a similar situation... Out of a relationship,want sex, don't want to get back into something deep relationship wise.. And having a hard time meeting someone that fills that void.. They basically want that 21 yr old female..without the strings.. When ironically...the person most like him.. Is the guy sitting right next to him.. And hope this doesn't shock anyone.. For all those dudes that say they don't want anything back there.. There are tons of guys that say...thank God The universe could use some more top guys. Nobody expects you to bottom
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Finally how hard is it to get the "D".. as a dude.. I think it's just different than being with a woman. With a woman she basically controls the dance...she decides..she might want full on sex or just cuddling. A guy really has to be a mind reader.. She may meter out sex..use it as a relationship yard stick...like no sex to At least the 4th date etc With a guy it's just different. I think men tend to just be more bold and straight forward with their desire. Say you and a woman are sitting on a couch watching a movie.. Chances are your not gonna throw your arm around her..more or less try to remove her clothes..your cautious to even touch her until she touches you But as men watching the same movie..yeah it's not odd for a top to be more aggressive,make a move. Put his hand on my knee or under my shirt.. let it set for a few moments and see how I react..then?grab my nipple. Or hell reach down and unzip my jeans Unlike a woman that might freak out.. I'm sorta chill...me just sitting back gives him my consent..confidence to go further.. And it's just easy for him to be bold and get what we both want.. Me naked. Guys are just more casual when it comes to sex.. There doesn't have to be all these hurdles to jump over.. And yeah if he is inviting me over to watch a movie..duh it's not to watch a movie Yeah he wants sex..but then so do i.. There is no mind reading requirred. So I'm not suprised to see him( on that couch )make a move.. Hell I'm just wondering why it took so long..like why wait and make me watch 20 minutes of the marvels So yeah
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Hopefully not breaking any new ground here.. But some guys might wonder.. It's odd.. With a woman your either a stranger,a friend..well your friendzoned..or your the Ken to their barbie...a which box dictates how you act towards this woman. Say I'm on a first date with a woman..I literally feel like I need to ask permission to just greet her with hug Cause I don't know how that will be taken.. Will it be viewed as sexual or just casual. With a guy I can be both a stranger,a friend,a ken..And still be intimate with this guy With a man ( that's into men).. I don't even give a hug a second thought cause..who cares if it is sexual..its natural..no biggie And it most likely will lead to more as the date progresses. I just feel it's easier for guys to have fun And with women..there seems to be hurdles..like seeing if your Mr. Right before you do x,y,z
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approaching 70, the market certainly shrinks.
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