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Part 3 of the D. Being gay vs m2m..I think there is a huge difference. First off Sorry if I'm log jamming the boards a bit with these topics. Second...I honestly think people need to chill a bit when it comes to labels or the fear of being labeled. An act doesn't define you..so dont define yourself over an act. Too many dudes run head first into the woodchipper proclaiming they are now curious or bi because.. Omg..they got their dick sucked.. By a guy.. And ( cue Katie perry) they liked it.. Of course you liked it Who doesn't like it..your dick is being sucked.. But here's the deal There is a huge difference between a blowjob and falling for a guy. But honestly I could stick your dick through a glory hole.. And walk a variety of different adults from a 22 yrs college coed to the mailman to the golden girls. .to a pack of nuns..into that room to suck you And your gonna enjoy it.. But that doesn't suddenly make you the pope.. Being gay is more than...a sexual act.. Like you could literally fuck a dude...And I still wouldn't consider you bi. ALOT of people like to define bisexual or gay to mean your attracted to someone of the same gender. I'd like to clarify that definition by saying it's more than attraction.. It's feelings. I can be attracted to a bodybuilder and admire his big pecs or huge arms..I can hero worship him. But that doesn't mean I want to date him. I may want to suck his cock.. But that doesn't mean I want him in my life The same goes for ALOT of straight women..they can think an actress is hott..be crushing on her.. But there is no real feelings for that person.. To me it's like a dude going to a bar to hookup with women..he's there to get laid and doesn't invest any real feelings into them. I'm not suggesting a guy is using a guy as a " replacement "..Like say in a prison setting. I'm saying it's okay to have fun with another guy without worring what it makes you.. You there to get laid. Your barman. Your there to suck and fuck... I said the same argument about lifestyle play with another dude.. It's more about bonding than falling in love, have feelings And if or when your ready to advance down the orientation scale..you might notice that bi sex still is different than even gay sex.. ???...say whattttt!!! But am I not putting my Dookie in his cookie..? Once again..it's not the act.. listen you can pump your dick into a fleshlite or an ass.. Blindfolded both will feel tight and warm on your dick.. But your not gonna have an emotional attachment/ investment in either.. That is basically what bi is in my opinion...Being comfortable with the guy...to some extent But it still can be very standoffish.. your not invested emotionally Gay sex on the other hand is completely different. In my experience there are no barriers,guys are warm, affectionate,passionate,do way more than just suck and fuck.. Hell I had dudes that sucked my fingers,licked my arm pit.. And to really hit home the idea that what you might wanna try,curious about or actually do with a guy isnt.. Gay..( you been warned) Hell I had a top guy literally lick my asshole out...no warning either.. At first there was a... Hellloooooooooo nurse sensation....he gave me no warning..just stuck his tounge right in.. Why???? Cause for him it was a casual thing to do..like why wouldn't you eat a bottoms ass out..it really is a common practice But once I realised what he was doing..I was chill.. And just saying I liked it.. I'm not saying every gay guy is like thid But certain things are the norm...like obviously kissing, the top prepping the bottom by stretching his hole with his fingers..ass eating, cum eating,sucking your nips Some things we label as fetish are quite normal/common in boytown like chastity,edging,anal play,fisting,spankings,nipple play, feet,sounds etc My point isnt to freak anyone out.. I'm using extreme examples to clearly show what you do 2 in the morning after a few shots..With your bud Is much ado about nothing.. It's basic...so don't read into it.. But I'm also saying Women can be...how do I say it without sounding like a dick.. Let's go with less experimental... You may have always wanted to fuck an ass,have your own backside played with,maybe you luv getting oral and that wasn't her thing,maybe your into feet and were really afraid to approach a woman about your fetish desires.. I'm not saying all men are laid back...but there is less of a sticker shock in the gay community. So yeah..hopefully this helps.. You to understand there is a huge difference between sucking a penis and a top rolling me into a ball and fucking me silly ( no cap..true story).. |
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And if this helps... I also think a guy could use the lifestyle to get himself over certain hurdles and comfortable with another man. We see it all the time with a sub hubby being pegged or sucking another slaves,bf,bulls cock.. And then just writing it off..as channeling his submission. Well if your new to the game,curious,a top...then why not assume the top/ Dominant role and slowly get yourself used to being with a guy.. Tie the sub up..explore his body...get use to him sucking you.. Get used to taking his hole.. And you can chalk it up to a " power exchange ". Made sound odd...but between men there is a natural balance of power..one is always gonna top.. And yeah the other has to give it up.. Or else this doesn't work.. And ironically he won't have an issue with bottoming..you'll never be put in that corner Just saying..if your straight,curious,bi..chances are you already top.. So why not use that to your advantage. Not saying you have to be a stern Master from the bowels of hell.. But you might want to consider the Dominant role
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this is all well and good, but shows how outdated alt is ... go on a real kink site you see several dozen kinds of sexual orientation, lol
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I'm not sure what you mean by real sexual orientation..perhaps you can tell me what website your talking about
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All good thoughts .. of course, ADHD medication is important to take every day 
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