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The real reason your initially not going to enjoy m2m Let's be honest...your voyage into guyland initially will be bumpy. Your not gonna just slide into the deep end.. Well I did...but more on that later.. Your gonna be nervous, your not gonna want to touch the guy,kissing is the furthest thing from your mind.. Hell you most likely didn't even bring lube or condom.. Youve banged women but never had to discuss whose topping who. Hopefully you at least had that talk with the dude. If your both new to the game then yeah the fucking Is gonna be rough. Literally...no lube.. you have no clue that you have to prep the bottom guy with your fingers,no clue that you have to give him that moment to adjust to your girth.. What...you thought you'd just slam it in.. It will be an experience the bottom guy soon won't forget.. A painful one.. So let's say you got it in and now are pumping away... Feels pretty good from your end... probably as good as a woman.. But the sensation your really lacking is the bottom guys reaction.. It will be akin to a woman that just lays there in bed.. You'll end up with a dude that is in pain from your thrust..and most likely won't know how to process it...and his hole will clamp down,tighten. Meaning it is harder for you to thrust This is why some guys try their hand at bottoming and never go back And since your inexperienced ..you won't know the difference between this guy And someone like me.. Who went fucked.. enjoys it and will start to moan, groan,make sexual noises as you thrust.. So you'd get a completely different experience with someone like me. Another reason it might initially suck is your afraid of touching the other guy. So your just...dick/mouth..and maybe anal . But your missing out on alot of ways to turn a man on.. To which your probably ignorant of cause you never explored your own body.. But you can caress his skin, pull his nips, use your mouth on his body like you'd a womans.. You do that with a woman..right? When there is more than just your penis involved,it's just a better experience all around. Okay let's say everything is gonna great, you got the plane in the air,the passenger is enjoying the flight.. But have you given any thoughts on how are you gonna land the plane.. To which you most likely don't even think of where your with a woman.. Do you nut up in the guy? Is it rude? Do you pull out and shoot on him? Is that rude? Can you finish off in his mouth? Is that rude? Is it rude to even ask? Or should you just do it.. Even odder . And for the love of Pete... Please don't make this mistake...cause your most likely be a top.. After you orgasm... Please..please.. please do feel like you owe the bottom guy one.. I had way too many tops reach over and start to jerk me off.. It's like they can't process that it's very enjoyable being a bottom..your get a lot of wonderful sensations back there . So I'm good ..I had fun Meanwhile they are rubbing my dick so hard you'd think they are trying to start a fire.. anything anal sort overrides sensations to the penis for a bit And you just rode me hard...it's gonna take a minute to prime the pump.. Meanwhile we both feel silly as you constantly work the handle and nothing comes out.. You feel like I'm missing out.. If you want to see me cum..then engage me as the bottom..stick your fingers in me when you jerk me,put a toy in me and suck me off etc. |
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Oh..I didn't answer How to land the plane? It's really as simple as asking..And yeah I doubt it will be something you discuss before hand.. It's more of the spur on the moment thing..when your close But yeah it's kind of an unwritten rule to ask.. But it's not like your pulling out and playing trivia pursuit with the bottom..your not giving multiple choses I had guys ask if they could..cum in me or on me.. And it's not like the bottom is gonna say no and go off screaming off.. But it's still polite to ask if he's cool with it... And it's not like you have to ask again and again and again .if he previous said yes Then you don't have no be so formal and just go ahead and pump your load into him/ on him/ down the hatch etc..
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"Meanwhile they are rubbing my dick so hard you'd think they are trying to start a fire." Like the way you express that!!!
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I wrote that initially you probably won't like m2m.. But there are exceptions..my first time was later in life..I was like 27 or 30??? And yeah the top guy was experienced. I've never been with a guy before.. But I enjoyed toys,enjoyed anal and was curious how a man compared.. So we got together..ended up naked in his waterbed.. He actually asked me who should go first??? And seeing how I've never been with a guy and was clueless.. I said you.. And yeah he started to kiss me,lick my neck etc.. It was a sticker shock..like omg a dude is now sucking my nips.. Now I could have freaked out..got up..put my clothes back on and left. Cause like 99.999999 percent of guys getting into m2m I thought we were just gonna fuck.. But I just relaxed. I told himself you wanted to see what a guy feels like.. And heres your chance. So I stopped seeing this as something negative..something..omg..gay!! And just enjoyed the wonderful sensations he made me feel.. Like holy fuck If your wondering..yep this is the rolled me up into a ball and fucked me hard guy. If anything this guy was the one that taught me how wonderful touch is and made me so sensual with others.. Which in the future..yeah got ALOT of women pissed off at me..I'm good at the sensual stuff.in the bedroom..but not the topping stuff..lol My point is simple...don't get discouraged if your first go around isn't great.. it does get easier/ better.. And don't be hard on yourself.. A lot of times the bottom you chose can ruin the night or make for a wonderful experience. Please remember your most likely gonna top... But it's a little different than what your use to.. You can't just use the same game plan. Watch some m2m vids..buy some lube..be patient initially putting it in.. Let the bottom be your gage ..he will let you know when it's okay to start thrusting.. My final piece of advice..if your new/er to m2m.. Say you've only did gloryholes and now want to progress and try topping.. Or never have topped a guy before. I'd suggest trying to find a more experienced bottom.. That way...sure your 1st time will still be ackward...but your gonna get a better overall experience..he will know what to do,guide you through it If the bottom is also new...then chances are it's gonna be a dumpster fire of a night. You just chalk it up You play..move on and advance to the next guy. An advanced bottom will let you do things at your speed and comfort level..which I feel emboldens the newbie top to try things.. Like your both sitting on his couch and there is that ackward idle small talk about sports,the weather,something on the internet,etc.. Your both secretly wondering when the fun will start. If you know the bottom is already comfortable..then it's just easier for the top to just reach out and say grab the bottoms knee...put his hand under the bottoms shirt.. And initiate contact.
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Like i wrote..im not trying to convert..lol.. But brother there are ALOT of dudes in the same boat and no doubt the thought might have crossed their minds. These series of blogs are for you,your wife, your gf And there comes that point in a man's life where he just says fuck it..grows the beard,gets the " dad bod" and becomes Ben afleck.. Probably says..I'm Batman in the mirror too. Once again a lot of dudes in that same boat.. People assume bi,gay men want perfection..that you now have to live in the gym,have a 6 pack to just pull a guy.. But it's sorta the opposite.. It's more like being a Domme...there are more of them than you.. And your the access point for certain things. So you don't have to be a model. Cause you offer more than just a pretty face.. Like I wrote..sure you can get with just any dude.. The same way a Domme can strap it on for just any dude.. But the experience is gonna be completely different with someone that is comfortable bottoming.. So I'd rather have a 300lb top that is extremely sensual than a fitness model that is clueless or homophobic.. So please don't feel like your body or you age has passed you by.. Unlike being with women..I think 40,50,60 is the new 30s when it comes to m2m..it's like you get a restart,a do over
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But the top roughly rubbing my dick is a true story. Like omg...it's not a lamp..a genie isn't popping out.
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I do love the mutual sensual approach. skin on skin, kissing so awesome, and working on my nips makes my legs spread like a well oiled hinge. mmmm!!
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