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likesmatures 55M
7121 posts
12/7/2023 10:45 am
What attracts a bottom m2m


I thought I'd give some insight into bottom guys.

I think there is this odd feeling that tops either try to treat them like women/ use that female template..

Or see a dude as..just a dude..like some guy off the street..they fuck and then play y2k with him.

And I feel that is the wrong mindset

Instead I feel like you need to view this in lifestyledynamics

No matter how you slice it...
There is a natural power exchange between men. One has to bottom...
Which I really don't feel is present during m/f sexual relations.

You chose to top,be the active..
Which allows me to bottom and be passive.
The more active you are
The more passive I can be.

And just like with Dom/mes...tops give off a certain energy

Just like with slaves...bottoms give off vibes

Which attract one another...

So just like the lifestyle..

You need the yang..to have the yang

To be Dominant..you need the submissive to be submissive.

You need that top to take that lead role.

I'm not suggesting he treat a bottom like a woman.

I'm saying a bottom guy likes being passive,guided,

He wants you to make the first move etc.

I'm not suggesting you need to be a Dom..

I'm trying to get you to understand there is more to the dynamics of m2m than just sex..

ESPECIALLY if this becomes a regular thing between you.

Deep down a bottom wants that guy so much into him that..

The top just reaches over and grabs his knee or brushes his thigh..

The bottom enters a more relaxed stage and the top gets bolder.

Slowly removing the bottom guys shirt or pulling off his pants.
The top then pulling out the bottoms c ock.

The bottom wants a bold guy that likes to be in charge..it not only attracts him but I feel completes him..he can be his natural bottom/ passive self

So the dynamic sorta is lifestyle based.

So yeah...If you want to attract a bottom...don't forget to be a top

likesmatures 55M
4838 posts
12/7/2023 10:50 am

And I'm not saying all bottoms are passive..

But as one wonders down the sexual orientation scale..to gaytown

it is a character trait that you'll see in ALOT of bottom boys..

A trait your probably not gonna see in say a curious guy looking for a bj at a gloryhole..

But it's probably buried deep down inside..

It's why we bottom



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