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The difference between a male and female " bottoms" in my opinion By now you've seen me throw around the term " bottom".. ALOT.. But that usually applied to men.. So you might ask...how about female bottoms? That is a te To be honest I thought that was something primarily found in the lesbian community.. It's funny how we base our theories on male behavior and then simply think it applies to women.. In this case ..yeah in m2m...physically you need a top and a bottom...it's pretty clear cut..not saying a guy can't do both...but He's usually one or the other With lesbians...??? Think about it...it doesn't have to be.. Both can be tops or bottoms. It's not based on a sexual organ. I'm not suggesting there can't be female " bottoms" in lesian/ lesbian lifestyle relationships.. But I think it's more mental,emotional,physical.. Then being purely sexual like men. So why the difference? Traditionally the bottom guy have been stereotypically portrayed as being smaller,slight of build,perhaps even a bit effeminate or nerdy But in reality a male bottom doesn't have to be a fanboy.. He could have tons of swag,could be a chad. He can be big or buff Be masculine AF and just enjoys it in the ass. Female bottoms operate more like the lil sister, the tag along. Why? Because women interact as a collective and operate best as a group. Usually everyone is equal...so nobody is assertive or Dominant..your all " friends" But within each group there will be that girl that is just more popular,prettier,more assertive,more overtly sexual..A leader And she will be the standards for the rest. Sooo yeah you might have other girls..fan girling over her..may develope feelings for her If your not as bold..just one of the group..you might see yourself as a bottom.. And that girl boss as.. A Dommy mommy.. She might be that girl bold enough to kiss other girls.. And you wish you could I honestly think that is why a lot of women are attracted to the girl boss character..say a rhea Ripley (wwe).. I think it allows women to safely test sexual boundaries ..but they are also attracted to this woman's boldness/ her confidence/ her swag. Probably the reason most women want a chad.. He is the male version of the girl boss,that leader of your group. So I think female " bottoms" do exist. But we don't openly label women like men. See as a man I list myself as a bottom to clearly attract a male top. Two bottom guys really don't mesh..so I'm quick to advertise my sexual position... Or else I could meet a wonderful guy,waste a bunch of time and find He's a bottom too And like I wrote previously I can't get this from a woman.. Kinda hard to find even in the lifestyle. But female bottoms can be concealed in plain sight...hell maybe in your own bed Cause a woman can be passive to a man.. And also passive with a woman/ girlboss. .I'll post a few pics of rhea Ripley.. Show them to your wife,gf... And most likely.. She'll " like" the pics...will say something along the lines like she'd sleep with rhea.. Yes in that context she would bottom to her.. Cause..(and yes the wwe uses this promo with rhea..) You call her..mommy or more receintly papi.. And fyi Rhea Ripley in real life isn't gay.. Neither is her character..but I think women get this sexual pass..they can like,be attracted to,sleep with another woman.. And as men...yeah..that's cool. Flip the script..have cm punk suddenly demand everyone call him daddy.. Have you hubby look at a cm punk pic.. And say..yeah I'd bottom for him.. And you might have some explaining to do        |
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And fyi rhea was a blonde before her character turned goth. My point today...I think male bottoms are more fixed,concrete.. Your not gonna find too many straight dudes bottoming.. Unless it's a lifestyle thing.. Your not gonna get hubby of 25 yrs of marriage leaning over the newspaper saying.. Wow Jason mamoa in aquaman 2 is hott..I'd love to have him break off a piece of his kit Kat bar in me.. Yet...I wouldn't count out...perhaps him expressing an interest in topping a guy,getting a boy of your own. For a lot of straight,curious or bi guys.. This is a discrete way to explore without the label. It's not " gay"..He's married/ He's the top The female bottom population is just larger..flies under the radar.. And is much ado about nothing. Girls making out with each other,f/f would be warmly welcomed in most marriages. So there is no stigma attached... It's not even seen as " gay" or a lifestyle thing.. Like omg it's rhea ripley...mommy could bend me over anytime.. So it's just different
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And fyi..not only is rhea sexy AF.. She is a warm and wonderful person..a big goof ball in real life..loves her job..luvs kidding around with the fans..got into getting tats And I don't think that mommy Dommy character is a character.. I think she could be that vanilla straight girl boss unicorn .. That pegs her straight husband.. And fyi..if you don't like rhea so " buff".. she cycles.. So at times she looks more er built..but that isn't her normal look.. Saying she isn't trying to look butch. She's a girlboss....
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Hi. You really have a lot of time to ponder about things. More power to ya. My first reaction to your tag line for today's opine: Male bottoms are mostly flatter and narrower. Women's bottoms are usually wider and more rounded ( plumper ). Rhea needs to grow out her underarm hair . 
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We I explained earlier..this is the winter of leo... And I'm fucking over my employer by using all my 180hrs pto in december.. And even though rhea has become an unofficial icon for the gay community...whatever.. I don't believe she wants to be one of those women with the dyed arm pit hair. I don't think she wants to appear " masculine " or even butch.. She just comes off as a girlboss... And it isn't other women that are calling her Mommy.. it's rey mistereos son...Dominic..part of her crew.
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Please note the 2nd pic and enlarge her t shirt.. It refers to dirty Dom mystero...Ray's son
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