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What to expect when your expecting another dude First off I'm gonna say..a lot of you are probably thinking Okay okay..you got me... I've always had an interest but didn't know how to really process it,put it into words or even go about it.. Perhaps you wonder if your too old or what this desire really means.. In all reality it could mean nothing.. maybe your lonely,maybe your horny,maybe you'd like that friend... Which could truly be that friend.. Yet also satisfy other needs.. Which is completely fine. Like I said before men aren't women..we aren't a substitution cause you can't pull a girl at the bar.. Men are just built different. I think at times people get the wrong impression of m2m. People assume it means your gotta fall in love,buy a house and get married. But it could be as simple as. ..being older on the treadmill at the gym. You enjoy watching the younger guys press the heavy weights,like the look of their tight muscular bodies. But you never had the nerve to act on the desire. Until you do. Maybe you walk over to the rack and start to make light conversation with that guy. Afraid of what he may say..so you keep it about lifting. Ask him for advice You find he is easy to talk to,super friendly,He's super chill.. Might make a great trainer or work out bud. You complement his body and gauge his reaction..there is that pregnant pause Waiting for the freak out that never comes. Your both giving off some vibes.. So yeah...you get embolden and press your luck.. And ask him if he wants to just hang out at your place.. And your shocked when he says cool. He's hot and sweaty from the workout and asks if he can use your shower. You shyly slide in with the offer of fresh towels. He pulls the shower door open...he's completely naked and hard before you... Er..hard all over.. He smiles You look away and offer up the towels.. Only to find his aroused penis now in your hands.. He ask if you wanna join him And soon your scrubbing his body..the dudes cock in your hand.. You towel off and ask the guy if you should move this into your bedroom.. And yeahhh....fun story..but it's that easy to find yourself balls deep into a guy. Without it having romantic or emotional overtones.. It can be purely sexually fueled You wanted sex,you wanted his bod,you filled him up good.. All had fun. So why stress The next day ? you could fist bump the guy at the gym And your cool. You could just leave it at that,you could ask him out..or just have a regular workout buddy No need for texting,no need to be clingy or ackward.. Unlike women men don't need ALOT of whistles and bells..we don't need to be wined and dined...we don't need to go on multiple dates with you to see if your worthy of physical contact/ sex We don't need you to be Prince charming..we don't need you to earn x amount of dollars,we don't need you to be a "boss".. If there is attraction..there is attraction... And ALOT of attraction really starts.. For me..being honest...starts with a guy just making contact. Willing to walk up to a guy..especially a public place and feel him out.. Just talking with him is..sexy..it's shows ALOT of confidence you shoot your shot and see how he reacts. And no I'm not suggesting the gym is a good place to meet men.. Another attractive thing for me is desire...your being into me is fire...so who care if your not a weight lifter etc.. I'm not saying be creepy..but desire gives off it's own vibes.. Unlike women...guys hanging out means sex... If a dude is popping over to play videogames,listen to records,watch Netflix and get to know you better.. Your gonna get to know him ALOT better.. Especially if your confidence, perhaps suggestive or forward.. Grabbing a knee,touching my body goes along way to getting us into the bedroom. My point of this blog....don't obsess over your desire.. It's not wrong and your not broken.. There is nothing wrong with wanted to get laid The best way to get with a guy..is to get with a guy..get on that Harley and ride Maybe you are that lonely guy on the treadmill... Maybe he is that lonely guy you watch on the bench... The easiest way to break the barrier is to take that first step.. Say that first word... And if that scares you..well this is 2023 and there is thing al Gore invented called the internet.. Where guys gather and list...literally every sexual thing they are into..will gladly list their role, if they are into kink,their hobbies...their pics So it's easy to find a guy that gets your dick hard.. Ironically you'll find you spent more time setting up a profile,writing an intro,taking a great pic and searching..worrying you need to be your best to pull a man Than the time it took to have a guy come over,hang out and now your having sex. |
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And I'm not saying you can't be romantic..that you can't be affectionate.. That you can't wanna date.. In a m2m.. I'm saying view this as m2m.... And seperate it from various labels that hold you back like sexual orientation or kink.. Instead see it as having healthy,normal needs.. For friendship,for companionship,for sex And stop judging where you find these basic needs. I only suggested men because we are more available, without the baggage that you might find with married,divorced,with kids women.. And we are more compatible Plus I feel men are easier to talk to,don't need the same mental,emotional connections.. And men are more likely to match your desire level for things like sex or kink. Like I suggested you could have that gym guy over and just have bro sex.. With a woman??? She's gonna need ALOT more. Not that women are bad..just different..with different needs,wants,expectations. I doubt some woman will just pop over,get in the shower and let you curl her toes.. Without ALOT of prep work. Just something to consider..when you consider
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And sorry if I'm panting a mental picture that guys are immature sexual gremlins.. I'm just being honest..based on my own experiences with men. There usually is that ackward silence when he invites you over,maybe you have something to drink. You sit on your end of the couch..he on his. He mentions sports,his hobbies, basically any old generic subject.. He is mentally counting down the minutes .. Gauging how much get to know you/ intro time he needs..thinks is appropriate Then he may inch closer towards me.. Still talking about gardening.. But he reaches out and puts his hand on me. Waiting to see how I react. And then when I don't pull away Yeah..may 15 minutes since I sat down.. He now is grabbing my knee or rubbing my inner thigh.. Or slides his hand under my shirt and starts tugging at my nipple. Still I down pullbaway Now it's easy to be bolder and he just strips me.. Removing my shirt,pulling off my jeans.. Reaching into my underwear And start sucking my cock.. 17 minutes in...going from thrills of gardening.. To me naked and his mouth on me New world record. I'm not suggesting men are slut.. Just your needs match mine,we both know why you asked me over.. I enjoy listening to you,I understand the brief getting to know you.. But yeah.. We both made up our mind as soon as I walked in.. Basically I feel sex can be like call of duty... You can have a dude over to play cause you want a teammate.. You can have fun without investing a lot of time,emotions,money..into somrone And ideally you don't need drama.. You just wanna play. Not saying you can make him a regular player on your squad.. But your primary focus is the play
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