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So lets talk about bondage and control from a slaves pov Sooo yeah. I wrote a letter to a Dom today. His profile stated that he was a bondage master,wanted to keep you bonded for hrs,wanted to edge you.. Wash,rinse,repeat,..standard stuff. The problem with such a profile is.. Well finding that " unicorn" slave. I reminded him unfortunately with that sorta desire you need two things 1. You have to find someone that comfortable enough to allow you to bind him. And not only bind him. .(but let's be honest)..bind him to his comfort level while still tight enough to satisfy your love of bondage.. Him barely tied up will do nothing for you. Chances are the Master would prefer you tied tighter and unable to move. And also you gotta remember this isn't a rush job. So this slave has to be cool being tied up for hours. 2. What the Dom basically wants is sensations play,controlling your body. He can have fun tieing up a guy spread eagle and butt naked in his bed. But .. He's not going to enjoy the power exchange if the slave is a floppy fish.. Remember he isn't a serial ( rhymes with thriller) and isn't getting off on your fear. Quiet the opposite..ideally wants you " happy,horny and a very responsive slave. He needs you relaxed,aroused and in his control He not only needs the slave to respond to the stimuli He needs you to let out those desired sounds..the wonderful moans and groans ,begging him to let you cum etc.. That is a turn on for him He isn't looking to scare,hurt or ideally piss you off...he isn't a sadist. Rather he is enjoying the power exchange because he is getting a desired response to his stimuli.. He's getting off getting you off. It honestly is no different than say spanking that cute female subbie at any play party..the one that let's out those wonderful noises when you barely spanked her.. So let's say he does find this unicorn...it could be me??? When your topping and tieing someone down...sure we get it can't be overtly tight due to circulation issues. And some people may have health issues preventing you tieing them up tight. But from my experiences ( and some advice to Dominant).. I'd rather be bound tight.. Cause if I have " wiggle" room my body will instinctively try to put away when a stimuli is applied.. Say I'm spread eagle and you now wish to say flog my front. My arm will try to pull down every time the flogger makes contact.. Which could Jack up a shoulder. Spread eagle is a classic.. But honestly behind the back or handcuffs might be better. Another thing to consider. It's one thing to tie someone up,using a few toys on them and call it" sensations" play..your reacting to someone's hand,a toy,something grounded. But you also can take the slave out of his comfort zone and let him...well I call " floating" Where there is no " contact".. nothing else in his world but the stimuli. Someone once tied me up naked and used a flesh light adult toy on my hard cock. To me it felt like there was nothing there...until I felt a quick sensation ( the insides) of the sex toy engulf my penis.. For a second...and then was pulled away.. And it confuses the fuck out of me..my mind couldn't process it,couldn't time it.. I even tried to air hump in the slight chance I'd make contact with the toy Then nothing.. And this overwhelming sensation around my dick.. And then gone.. Easy control for like 30 bucks??? Take something even simplier...one of those whortenburt? Wheels and gently run it over the cock and balls...slowly.. with the lightest of pressure you can give him an out of body experience |
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