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Just cause they have a sign out..your needs vs theirs Here's a quick blog for you all.. Even when a woman screams in a profile... That she LUVS femdom..it's number 1 fan...she says she's into cbt,anal training...everything you always wanted to try..etc Still doesn't mean her needs.. Are your needs . And I really wished it could be just about her needs..hell I wrote a theory on this hoping it would be the solution for femdom couples.. My advice??? Right off the bat ask someone what their needs are and how to you envision yourself in this lifestyle relationship. And I think you might find Your way off.. I had 3 consecutive crash and burn relationships with older Dommes.. Why? They want more of a boyfriend than a slave..like it is something you bring out of the closet when your bored on a Tuesday night.. I on the other hand function better in the relationship when all familiarity is removed from the equation..I can be your bf... But I'm always beneath you in status..I'm a slave Meaning I'm not here to out anyone..I don't need to grovel in public or put on an act. I can be very on the down low. But I'm certainly not " sub hub" that is Jimmy 24/7 and then becomes slave Julie at group events and at the local dungeon.. Rather I'm the guy that does actions expected of him ..like say kiss your feet when the Dominant enters a room or comes back home.. We both might enjoy femdom BUT have different needs... Someone like myself may actually be draining for someone that isn't used to being in charge.. But with me..it's no act..I'm naturally submissive..it's how I act around people in authority,in charge. I honestly think this should be the first question you ask of any lifestyle person... 1.What are your needs ( which is different than saying what your into...I can say that I luv x,y,z...but our shared luv of cbt isn't going to work if you want a closeted bf In my case I need a top, a firm hand,a figure of authority.. 2.And how do yourself see this relationship... As a slave...a distinct seperation between us..say queen and serf |
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