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Boomerrangs: do you let exes back into your life Here is a problem we all faced.. Do you let exes...Doms,subs,gf,bf...back into your life.. Even as friends.. I post this because I got an odd alert on fet.. I rarely go on there...but I do have numerous pics that I liked or commented on in the past.. Anyway I got a friend's request from this person.. Not the original name I knew her on fet.. A new one.. No pic.. But the age and location were accurate....it was the same sorta bio Now it could be a scammer...but omg talk about working your ass off if it was.. There are easier ways to scam someone.. I doubt you'd come at me as a 68 yr old local Domme with no boobs pic. So I have to assume it really is her. There was no note... Just a friend's request... And a" like "to a drawing of a male slave tied naked to a bed spread eagle..with an erect cock. In the past year I literally told someone/ a former vanilla friend.. I knew in my past that I didn't want to be friends with her again...it actually got a lil creepy/ her stocking me.. So I'm used to saying no and just cutting off people.. And yes it's hard for an audience to not only judge this Domme and my past with her.. But give me advice on how to proceed I'm not saying I'm perfect and I had nothing to do with our breakup. But I also know I'm fun,,I'm not chopped liver.. And yes it's sorta hard to find a good male slave as Dommes age.. In her case..she doesn't want the D..is sensual.. And that pic of that tied up male.. Probably is something she longs for.. But has no real access to.. Unless she reaches out...to her past.. Your thoughts.. I'll try to tell you more about her tonight |
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Another day of snow
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Which has more appeal to you? That you don't want to be friends with her again, or the pic of the tied-up male?
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Please be careful. my humble opinion is that it's not impossible to pick up old pieces and resume a more happy ending, but there was a reason (or many) for the initial parting. It especially struck a note with me that you mentioned stalking. That is never a safe characteristic to gamble on. This realm requires an exceptional amount of trust and stalking, to me, is the equivalent of not taking no for an answer, and not stopping at a person's safe word. It's not acceptable in any way, shape, or form. i seemingly have a stalker on this site. New to blogging, he mentions wanting a tryst and all of this other nonsense, in almost each one of his posts. In my past, i was going to take another chance on him, despite that things he did when we ended terrified me and he also attempted to embarrass me by messages he left in my profile status. None of that shows signs of a person worthy of bringing back into one's life or even spending any time on. Please take care. That's all i'm wanting to say to you. People don't believe that men need to keep practices of maintaining their safety as well as women do. But people can be dangerous, regardless of any particular way you see them, weak or strong. Good luck to you, likesmatures.
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People enter your life for a day, months or on rare occasions, a lifetime. You have to accept the role and purpose; Not try to fit someone where they are not meant to be. It's not a negative reflection on you and it usually turns tragic when you go against your gut feelings and try and make something that wasn't meant to be. You ex is an ex for a reason(s). Grown people typically do not change. They will sometime morph into what you want or need but eventually their true behaviors will re-surface. Learn and cherish the good experiences and move on.
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With time you forget the bad and only remember the good...... but if you let the same ones back in to your life you will shortly remember the bad......again......and again.....and again.......
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bringing back exes usually have bad problems.. many times reopening old wounds.. sometimes a meetup turns to friends with benifits then remember why you broke up.. and pain over again, and not be available for the right person to come along.
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Depends on the definition of "ex" and why they're an "ex"  Sometimes they're an "ex because you just drifted apart (especially with fwbs) and other times there are more significant reasons why they aren't around anymore. Some might be worth having back in your life and some might be best avoided at all costs.
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