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The shocking blog I've been going through a bit of late.. Finally starting to get back into that bdsm groove. So I thought I'd talk some about shocking devices and why I think they are a good addition to any couples toybag..no matter their level Now I'm experienced in the lifestyle. But I've come across so many people..so many couples..just sitting on the sidelines without even a basic enjoyment of a power exchange.. I would never call these people " wannabees"..I'm not here to judge someone's definition or level of the lifestyle But there are tons of people living vicariously and their own basic fears are holding them back. I've run into sooo many Dommes afraid to even swat someone It's like they are just sorta frozen in place..don't wish to explore or advance.. I'd like to suggest a couple look to a shocking device. I think way too many people see it was something advanced,something painful. I see a shocking device as something basic and feel it should be part of the initial training of one's husband, bf,male slave.. Why? Cause I want to stress this isn't about pain...it's about a person getting to experience real control over a male..with little to no effort on their part. And without tons of expense or training. Any adult can now literally be a Dominant..doesn't matter how old you are,how small you are,how big you are.. It's now easy to just click a button on the remote and the male quickly obeys. So an elderly couple,a wife,grandma,etc can now physically control a bigger,heavier,muscular male slave Nobody expects you to pick up a whip,paddle or flog for hours.. There literally is no need. Hell there literally is no need for other lifestyle gear.. One can literally control a male with a remote control. Shocking devices are relatively cheap...can be attached to the testicles,the penis,up his arse,in a prostate buttplug.. Etc.. The best thing is there isn't that " fear" of " hurting" the male...like one would feel with say canning,paddling,whipping or just disciplining him. It literally is a small jolt to his most sensative areas. The " pain" isn't even " pain".. it more like unexpected,quick,overwhelming for a second.. Then gone... But very effective.. Without any damage done,no marks,no soreness, The remote has many levels of shock...from..this feels nice To him surrendering.. And knowing the device most likely is only turned up half way.. Plus it gives a Dominant real options for control...She still has 4 or 5 higher settings to honestly overwhelm the male physically if she choses to use it. And yes those higher setting can put a male on his knees before you. Such a device allows a Dominant to experience control... Without going overboard, experience it on their comfort level And without the fear of really harming the male.. But also leaving her the options of exploring deeper. I don't see shocking devices as a finisher,advanced device.. I see it as something as a starting device..a learning device that might aid a lot of people on that bdsm fence The Dominant gets to instantly experience control with no real effort,money,time,experience or energy involved.. |
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My point is simple.. I think ALOT of people would relish control over a male..would luv having a male slave Yet have no access to one,no lifestyle knowledge,experience or ideally aren't into hurting someone.. And i think a shocking device makes this fantasy more accessible..if not more palatable to a new Dominant.. Your not whipping...your pressing a button,your enjoying his reaction to the shock,your luving his instant obedience... So your experiencing control without the parts of the lifestyle that you really feared. Or let's be real...you feared you'd be stuck doing.. Whips,canes, discipline aren't for everyone... Shocking devices I feel are more of a training device,a control device.. So you get to have control...which you might crave.. Without having to do,explore other avenues of the lifestyle just to have,get,keep.. A male slave..
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And honestly...you might find a good male slave that will really let you explore.. But the shocks can literally be like what you get from static electricity and shag carpeting.. It gets your attention..it's brief,no damage,you don't want more so you desire to simply obey.. So it doesn't even have to be painful,extreme to enjoy control over him
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 So true Slave rick
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