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The surprise benefits of playing with a dude Now before my blog sounds like an advert for gaytown.. I'm not omg..converting anyone ..this blog post really isn't about sex..it's about the lifestyle Instead I'm trying to open some eyes .. and suggest a couple,a straight guy,an elderly couple that is having trouble finding a female slave... May actually consider a male slave instead.. I'm crafting this blog because I ran across a personal ad from a local straight married Dom looking for a male slave.. And yeah it's more common than you'd think Hopefully that didn't blow your mind... Cause there actually are ALOT of benefits that you might not have thought of.. 1. For starters..male slaves come with less barriers. Now this is just an over all generalization,stereotype .... But Female slaves usually are looking for that relationship component,not looking to share with another slave or wife.. And can be quite choosy when meeting potential Dominants.. Male slaves? Are more play driven... They don't necessarily need a relationship..don't need to be the hubby,bf or even a wink wink..what we tell the neighbors..he's a " friend".. Males are here to full fill a role.. They can be used,treated,seen as Well...an actual slave. .instead of say..bob..mistresses katies sub hub that your know from that bdsm bbq last month So I feel a male eliminates the need for jealously...the slave isn't there to replace your hubby/ wife...isn't there to sleep with your wife..isn't there to be a part of your existing relationship..Or interfere in it.. He's literally there to clean the house,enjoy disciplining,enjoy controlling,etc... So I feel a Male makes a better fit for anyone that ever entertained the thought of owning a slave. 2. Men are up front with their desire to serve and don't constantly judge you or make you jump through all those hoops. They don't have tons of qualifiers . They don't expect you to be prince charming( 6 foot tall,6 figure income, 6 pack abs,...blah,blah,blah..) They don't expect you to even be this experienced Dominant with 10 grand in toys You literally could be a 90 yr old straight couple. Or a gay postman,or santa clause ..and it d oesnt matter. You can be 300lbs...and it doesn't matter.. What matters is your desire .. Your honest desire to own,discipline,control a male.. It's what you desire It's what he needs in his life. Men also don't beat around the bush..it's easy to have them over,even easier to get them naked and tied to a spanking bench or cleaning your house,etc.. Without a thousand emails sent,without a thousand get togethers,without many months of getting to know one another or being vetted or even belonging to various local bdsm . 3. Sex? The interesting thing is sex literally doesn't have to enter the equation. Cause your literally replacing his need for sex with his need for<b> service. </font></b>So it isn't odd in spanking groups to see straight men spanking gay,bi men or vice verse sans any sorta sex. Yes it really happens..lol Yet oddly enough.. Sex can be on the table...without really being on the table.. And I honest think it's different when one is Dominating a Female vs Male slave..it's like there are different societal rules If a Dominant grabs a Woman's body...it's sex/ sexual..And it's just viewed differently, it may really offend her...she may even see it as...a criminal act It has to be 100 percent consensual Meanwhile..just be honest...a Dominant can grope my penis without any notice/ permission ..happens ALL the time.. And nobody bats an eye And yeah this actually happens ..she/ he can just finger me.. Without giving it a second though....literally had Domme just slide in fingers...like...hellllllllloooooooo nurse!!!!!!!!! I'm not making light of the need for permission.... But people are just more casual with a male,his body. And I feel males are more casual with being touched,prodded,poked Its Different with a male slave... A grab of his nipple,a jerk of his cock,a toy entering his ass is viewed as playful,an element of control,it's a power exchange.. And being real..stereotypically speaking ..most male slaves aren't offended in the least.. Not saying bdsm shouldn't be consensual...but I think..in general male slaves are more casual than females when it comes to being touched in a sexual manner Now let's look at that one straight local Dom that wanted a male slave...in the ad he mentioned that he might also want oral..and using toys on your backside Yet most likely the straight Dom doesn't see it as a gay..or even bi thing.. And honestly me sucking a cock really is no different than say licking his boot..it's another form of control I don't process this as ..something negative,abusive..or even sexual.. I don't see it in sexual orientation terms either..it's not a gay thing. Finally yes you can use the male slave sexually you might like fucking his ass or having him fuck you,your wife..hell fuck the gardener...whatever I just think male slaves in general are more " open" to various scenarios and may fit in better with your current relationship,marriage. 4. play...hate to say it but I feel generally....male slaves are just more open to various styles of play,fetishes vs female slaves...esp right out of the gate I feel if you have a particular fetish you wish to explore... You,your wife...are going to have a better chance of finding that with a male slave.. Say you want to do golden shower,do puppy play,explore bondage,are into feet.. I think one is more bold when approaching a male vs a Female slave with such fetishes..one can be more forward.. And your more likely to find a slave into it... In the men's department. Don't like to stereotype..but I also feel like males are more drawn to discipline,being disciplined ..we are geared for it And from a newbie Dominant standpoint.. There is that impression that males are bigger,stronger,harder to injure...so a male may seem like a better option to learn on And there are a lot of male slave only styles of play that one only gets with a male slave.. Like feminization, sissy maid,chastity,cbt,etc. |
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Like I said..I'm making general statements based on my opinions and lifestyle experiences.. I'm not bashing an gender or orientation. I'm trying to make people see that you don't need to be lgbtq to desire a male slave.. It honestly doesn't even need to be sexual.. And if anything a male slave may be a better option For your current situation Because he is only looking to full fill the slave role.. I feel this gives various types of people more options.. Like that elderly couple... An option they may never considered... And who knows... you may just jell.. Someone the elderly couple may never thought of.. Is now owned,collared and happily serving their household I think way too many people see this in sexual or relationship terms.. The male slave is unique cause he can exist is various forms...he doesn't need to be..x,y,z... He can be a bf,he can be a " bro" your Domming on the side, he can be a lover,he can be a friend Or just a naked,collared slave cleaning your toilet.
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Being a male sub this iis an interesting post with many good points.
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My point is simple... A lot of men,A lot of couples " unicorn" hunt... Which can lead to a lot of frustration..everyone wants that 20 something,athletic,professional,6 figure salary,bisexual female.. Who happens to be into the both of you.. There is a reason they call it a unicorn hunt... Nobody is finding her... I'm nearly suggesting maybe you should try a male..get a boy instead. People just assume it has to be sexual... In reality a lot of male slaves are laid back,willing to engage in various styles of play without the fuss.. So you could have that slave you always dreamth about
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