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lil_miss_fruity 50F  
2010 posts
4/21/2022 6:07 am
Age

Is there a reason that Y/you go for a certain age in a partner?

Do You have a rigid age limit (above legal limit of course) that Y/you stick to?

Would Y/you defer from said age if the person exactly what Y/you wanted?

How much would Y/you defer by?

I'm submissive and I go for older Men. I will go younger but maybe only 40ish but depends on Dom. I'm not sure why but I have a thing?? for Older men *shrugs*




DaddyDom4RealSub 57M

4/21/2022 6:12 am

I think older men younger women especially in D/s is rather natural


palinax 59M
124 posts
4/21/2022 6:24 am

when I was young i was attracted to older women.
now that im older im attracted to younger women
is that because i'm not supposed to? or just kinky?


IsoOnlineSub7 65M/56F
1548 posts
4/21/2022 6:32 am

For me, attitude and intelligence matters more than age.


bipantyboy63 61M

4/21/2022 6:36 am

Yes I would


alwaysassertive 64M

4/21/2022 7:02 am

I can understand your interest in an older man. An older man will generally focus more on you and make you number one in his life, Maybe I'm just talking about myself here.
I'm interested in a woman's mental maturity and her cognitive ability first. Of course Im attracted to her personality as well. I

f she's a dog lover that's a huge plus. Cats are okay, but the only reason your cat doesn't kill you is because you're so much bigger. If you were able to get a house cat that was the size of a mountain lion. You wouldn't last long before becoming a meal. Cats have very little loyalty, like some women I've known.
I would have to say 40 would generally be my lower limit unless she really impressed me with her articulation and cultural refinement. I'm not saying I'm culturally refined to a high degree. I'm a constant work in progress when It comes to art and music.
When someone believes they are at their peek. There's no longer room for improvement. I seek to constantly improve myself and along the way I hope to cultivate a loyal and passionate woman as well.

Unfortunately there are women here that are narcissistic and lack the ability to feel compassion, and love anyone but themselves. They are quite vindictive towards others. That goes for men as well.

I may be dominate but I'm compassionate and loving as well.
I believe in second and third chances, but only to a point.


ridermantel 68M

4/21/2022 7:02 am

It is more than just age. Character, honesty, truthfulness, intellect, education and aesthetic likes and dislikes are things to consider.


drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
4/21/2022 7:30 am

Age really shouldn't be an issue but I just have a better sense of my submission with an older woman.


Uncut4u2suk 48M
16 posts
4/21/2022 10:11 am

Maturity matters to me more than age


rondiri 65M
11180 posts
4/21/2022 11:16 am

Age is not really the concern I have. It's the physical ability to withstand the bondage I prefer to practice. There are some older women that can handle that. If I found one, and we meshed, I wouldn't care about the age. Maybe if I had not been away from the lifestyle for so long, The bondage wouldn't matter as much to me, but I was, and it does.


lancylad 78M
384 posts
4/21/2022 1:27 pm

As the oldest posting on this I am saying nothing !!!! Lol !!!


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
4/21/2022 4:37 pm

Do You have a rigid age limit (above legal limit of course) that Y/you stick to?
No rigid but these are the guidelines
submissives - 20 and above
Femdom couples - 30 and above
FWB's - 35 -60

Would Y/you defer from said age if the person exactly what Y/you wanted?
Not younger but older for sure

How much would Y/you defer by?
10 years

I'm submissive and I go for older Men. I will go younger but maybe only 40ish but depends on Dom. I'm not sure why but I have a thing?? for Older men *shrugs*
Nothing wrong with that.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
4/21/2022 5:16 pm

age is a # to me personally iT all depends on the connection to go younger then 40s but it also depends on the connection similar interests w anybody!
I’m into fiesty bratty sassy subs for D/Lg roleplay!

“it always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure” ~Marquis de Sade


gor1111 70M

4/21/2022 11:19 pm

The person before age for me always xxx



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