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is a well behaved sub boring? JUST ME PONDERING....SHOULD NEVER BE LEFT ALONE TO MY THOUGHTS LOL Is a well behaved sub boring? Is a sub who causes little trouble boring? I know some Dominants don't want a sub that causes trouble or misbehaves. I know some Dominants that want a lil bit of a trouble causer, misbehaving from a sub. I will never claim to be the perfect submissive as I don't think that exists as I don't think the perfect Dominant exists. Perfect maybe match wise but no one is perfect in everything. I try my upmost to not get into trouble or misbehave but like I said I'm not perfect an things ...erm... happen  I have been thinking about this for a day or two now and I think I'm rather boring as a submissive to be honest. Yeah I have my moments but nothing major or drastic ...well I don't think they are lol Does it make me boring if I don't want to get into trouble or misbehave? I hate the thought/feeling of disappointing my Dom or see the disappointment on His face or in His voice. My old mentor told me to always be me and if the Dom wanted to change you into something completely different then He is not the right Dom for you. He told me there was always going to be give and take in any relationship but not to the point of completely changing everything about a person. Does not detract from me thinking I'm boring. HOPE THIS ALL MAKES SENSE, SORRY IF IT DOESN'T |
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Just because a submissive behaves doesn't make things boring. There can still be playfulness. The Dominant has to keep things from stagnating, the submissive is supposed to obey and submit. Doesn't mean scene play or life has to be boring.
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10/1/2022 5:49 pm |
No not at all. Behaving leaves room for other more productive things of value to be enjoyed rather than having to deal with disobedience
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I semi agree with rondiri, i will add as a well behaved submissive, i believe i have the duty also, along with the Dominant to not let things stagnate. For me it is a partnership in which i provide the release needed to alleviate stressors of the day so He can focus on us(me...being selfish...lol). imho. Lady Lee
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10/1/2022 7:23 pm |
Short answer is no, longer answer would be a combo of the excellent points stated in the other answers. It's the grey area where lots of fun can be had. I like flirty cheeky women. I guess it's how "well behaved" is being defined. What one may tolerate, another may not and visa versa.
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From a submissive point of view, I enjoy being a bit sassy, but never disrespectful. A Dom/me will always remind you when your getting close to that line. It’s not about being good or bad as much as knowing what pleases, displeases, and arouses your partner mentally and physically. Show your Dominate the confident and witty fruity we all adore. Good luck and stay out of your head, your far from boring. 
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Once, in a conversation with a man, to me it was questionable if he was a dominant or a top... or a player.... When i told him, i want to be obedient, i want to make my dominant proud, and happy. Why, if i committed myself to his rule, will i be rude and disrespectful? Or boring? When you obey, and make your D happy? He told me, that was boring, why would he want a submissve who did what he wanted?  I was in shock! Huh? What? Just an other mismatch. You "just?" have to find your match, that is all, and that is a whole lot! Sure, some sassy is great, playfullness too. And i am that, too. But, you have to know the line, between the one and the other... I dont think, you will ever be boring, get out of your head!  
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10/2/2022 1:11 am |
I like my subs to just do as instructed and be fully compliant 😉
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nothing wrong w you being you serving how you wish l like a sassy sub who mostly obeys but isn’t always obedient...that’s where the fun begins! heh heh
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I hope a submissive does not get involved to cause trouble, in order for her to manipulate a dominant. I do expect a submissvie to challenge a dominant from time to time, to test the boundaries. To question his dominance, reliability, and any element that affects their relationship to maintain trust. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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There are as many answers to this as there are submissives in the world. No two are the same. Certainly there is nothing wrong with being a good girl, but being playfully bad can add spice, just talk about it with your dom(me). As far as boring goes, if you are as your dominant wants you, you're perfect!
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Spice and sassy behavior are needed from time to time. It couldn't hurt. 
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