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Full vanilla does not satisfy the deep-seated urges I have.
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6/22/2022 7:49 am |
I have seen a few of the Yes answer in real life and not one lasted! If i can help Sir, message me. xx
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I can understand that if you have been out of the community for a while you may feel less engaged. For me it is too much of my psyche to walk away; I am happy not to be in a relationship but if I am it will not be "full vanilla". At the end of the day we must all do what is right for us; but for me I will keep my flogger and hopefully an obedient slave at my feet.
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6/22/2022 7:54 am |
Some of us haven't chosen this way, off the beaten path, but were chosen by it and it is as surely our calling as the burden is a curse. I have tried to ignore it, overcome it and deny it . . You can see how that's worked out for me.
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I'd try to convert them. Might or might not sell off the toys if they didn't convert. Not sure the head over heels would actually last, though. But at my age? I'd have to give it a try. Maybe that's why I deleted all my vanilla dating site profiles, didn't want to risk finding a vanilla love.
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6/22/2022 9:24 am |
Would you fall that hard for someone who didnt share them?
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I only turned to BDSM when my hubby died, as I have stated many times, BDSM was never about sex for me, and I met a few Doms (some even married) who could give me what I want. A few months ago, I met this amazing man, and me being who I was, brought out the BDSM from the beginging, needless to say, I kinda blew him away, a few months down the line, and he is starting to get his head around it. It is a work in progress, but if someone loves you, they will at least listen. So conversion it is for me  FYI, I never forced it apon him, I just educated him......
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ARS I have tried but secretly dressed so, NO A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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We have discussed this. For us, me especially, i asked to continue as we are.
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6/22/2022 3:18 pm |
YES.
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No!! I would be too bored in a vanilla relationship!!
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6/22/2022 8:54 pm |
I haven't played in BDSM for about 17 years since getting married. I'm slowly trying to edge her into it. She likes my cock in her ass. Okay, not BDSM but not full vanilla either. Next step is buying a strap on harness so she can fuck me up the ass. Then bondage, CBT... She read all those 50 Shades books but won't act on them.
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6/23/2022 3:09 am |
Not only would i, i did. But she passed away several years ago. When Love is gone, Lust must make do.  My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do. 
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No, i cant "fall in love" with someone, who does not understand this deep inner need in me. I also know, i would make his and mine life miserable He wont be able to fullfill me mental needs and wants. Just vanilla? and vanilla sex? i dont think so!
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That's not love...for me. I now have the whole package and I spent 14 years in a vanilla hell.
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i don't think it's love if your not connecting in your kinks as well as other areas of life.
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Translation Yes, without a doubt, you are interested in the person as he is, his preferences are the plus, but not the determining factor. If she was madly in love, of course she would leave everything for him. Y quizás un instante sirva para trazar el camino que me guíe hacia tus ojos.
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6/27/2022 1:42 am |
i tried, lasted 4 years but the urge never goes away
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6/28/2022 8:59 am |
cant do just vanilla relationships anymore i'd just not stay faithful i cant handle just regualr sex/boyfriend & girlfriend life but i still have vanilla hook ups sumtimes tho vanilla is like a mcdonalds i love mcdonalds but if i ate it every day id get sick of it (and get fat haha) so id need more choice
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Been there, tried that...2 divorces later...cant put myself thru It again. I have fwb who are vanilla. Its a nice treat, but not an every day meal.
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i've tried. It's just not possible. i'm too submissive.
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6/30/2022 1:10 am |
Just got out of one, got really toxic...
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i have tried....but i cannot escape the real me and that is not fair to any partner that expects honesty, truth, and total commitment...... which they have a right to expect. i need what i need...and its at my core and inescapable no matter how i have tried. I also deserve to be happy and feel fulfilled. Only my submissive kinky self can find that.
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7/2/2022 12:41 am |
There's just no way I would fall in love without that kink and definitely-non-vanilla aspect being addressed. It just wouldn't get that far. I cherish the relationships I have - but they are not physical because I still want the whole package - or keep looking. I know what I need.
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I tried going vanilla and monogamous for my ex-husband. He was a great guy, but it wasn't my nature and failed miserably.
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