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BDSMbedroomslave 46T
104 posts
8/4/2022 5:28 am

I have come to the point where I do not understand why I even bother to retain a profile here.

I suppose I am hanging onto that fantasy I might actually find another needle in this gigantic haystack of fakes.

I found one here, but they were vastly outnumbered by the amount of fakes, wannabees and downright dangerous folks who the admin permit to continue to retain a profile, regardless of them being reported for 'dangerous' time wasting I have had the misfortune of being let down by.


BDSMbedroomslave 46T
104 posts
8/4/2022 5:39 am

The problem with this site is the same for all other BDSM related sites. The scammers see it as a rich target area, to prey on the desperate and the lonely. Who'll jump at any opportunity to meet, like its their last chance on Earth to ever meet someone.

They then get burned, whether financially or through the humiliation of being stood up, especially if they travelled long distances to a no show or worse still, "that person doesn't actually live here"

I've had all, and on this site too, although it isn't restricted to just this site, this site is the one I think of, when I get burned.

I'll compliment this site with one fact, Thanks Alt, for snapping me out of my naive look on the world, that if it looks too good to be true... it probably is

I read the occasional Blog, leave the odd message like this, but ultimately I've given up on this site delivering what I'd like to find here


bmw318is61 52M
96 posts
8/5/2022 9:04 pm

ARomanticSadist,

if you ever stopped your blog, this would be a great loss of quality at Alt, considering the blogs offer the only meaningful time use and constructive contribution for the owner-moderator and its readers.
For the rest, I can only endorse - through my 1 year membership experience - that all cited criticisms and comments on your blog by yourself and the readers are rightly recognizable, as I have identical experiences and thus also the same reservations, as well as a priori come to the same conclusions.
Also about the well-described issues and grammatical quality by both the moderator and all participants, it is clear that there is a need to demand +/or enforce change, as this downward spiral of the issues discussed can only contribute that the 'chaff' remains and will increase and the 'wheat' will leave the sinking ALT ship.
Making a regular pit stop at your blog at least makes me feel like I haven't 100% wasted my time on ALT, which is the case when I'm looking for a female partner to contact: a waste of time
Keep up the good quality+work ethic......You are an asset....and not 1 yota wrong or written too much!
Greetz, Julius


aldompdx 62M
1074 posts
8/14/2022 6:42 pm

It's your own fault if you are an easy mark.
The internet and ALT is a miscrocosm of the ever changing world.
Adapt or perish.
See: [post 1105422]
How to improve detection of confidence artists

Via my handle ALDOMPDX, I communicate on the usual daught calm places.



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