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Is this acceptable behaviour.... So Alt wouldn't let me post this in my photos so let's try on here as lots of people mentioned on my status. So what do you think of this mans behaviour? I was disgusted. Firstly, I appreciate my response is not polite, however it is warranted with such a horrendous opening line. I haven't even bothered hiding the username as I think these individuals needs to be help accountable for their actions. What is name also doesn't know is that I struggle with my appearance every day. His message hurt me initially. I am incredibly body conscious and it takes a lot for me to post photos of myself. If you have been guilty of fay/slut shaming people, please just take a minute to consider how your words may impact people. Ok Alt have now deleted the photo (predictable) therefore here is the conversation: Man: Let's talk about what you are going to do to me: Insert his number Me: You can fuck right off Man: lol - bloke pretending to be a woman are you? Man: Just actually looked at your profile - fat cunt aren't you |
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No, this kind of behaviour is definitely not acceptable. But I've seen worse and I'm talking about a women. So in both sexes there are pure jack asses, assholes or whatever you want to call them. I've heard from one sub I know that, after a rt session, this guy kept on humiliating and degrading her. She felt really humiliated as a human being to the point of being scared. Yes, I like humiliate and degrade subs as part of a session but only if she tells me, during the pre-seesion talk, that she's into it. Before and after a session I always treat them with repsect and treat them as an equal person. These people can't seperate the 'real world' and a BDSM session. Stay away from those people and I suggest, thet whenever a chat tends to that way, just close the chat. Feeling sorry for you regarding this experience. Take care.
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Sorry to hear you were subjected to thisasshatery. Sadly, it goes on all the time. These type of people, put other down as a means of making themselves feel better. Theya re insecure. they hid behind excess bravado.. He is probably the ugly one.....ugly to the core. No matter his exterior appearance. I would not be surprised if you are gorgeous. Probably a really great person on top of it. I am a standard member now days, so can't view profiles. You can alwasy post at the FL place the photos of what you want to show. Be well and just plain ignore the jerks. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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6/17/2020 1:22 am |
Thanks for your lovely comments. I too am a standard member now - actually got away with no paying since been on here but I think the privilege of being female on here no longer exists. I tend to post much more on FetLife now anyway as this site just has too many creepy men on here! Don’t worry, you certainly aren’t included in that 🙂
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From your profile picture you look sex as hell what would you need to be self-conscious of that you're sexy you can send me pictures at hangout hannon61 at g and I will compliment you all day and night
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You look hot & sexy as you can be! Any master would be proud to have you as a slave/sub! Thi isn't the point, is it! Having been on alt a long time & had hundreds of conversations, I can say there are women who want to be degraded from the start, but one needs to know who they are talking too! Most women don't want instant abuse! Sorry you have to deal with creepy men who think Dom=asshole! Is your fetlife handle the same? At this time, I am also standard member. Not worth paying extra!
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I did not read the other comments. That is what all the fake dominants do. initialy they pretent to be nice or something like that.. Try to get into you panties, say and do, almost everything to get there... and if you show any sign of being able to think and make real sentenses they show their real nature. Especially when you call them out, on their behaviour. Just a show of totall incompetence. loser vanillas Probably in a bad marriage. A dominant has patience, is intruiged by who you are, what you write. A dominant has knowledge about what women have to endure from other men. He wants to ge to know YOU. Not instant gratification of the body., his lust. he knows that if you hit it off, he will get access to your body. He wants to get your trust, will tell about his own discovery about being Dominant, and what that did to hi, for his selfimage, his self esteem. He wants you to be able to be and feel safe, with him Not some moronic imbecil who think he is a real man by body shaming you! There are not that much Dominants, you know? The most are just wanting to play the sexy role play, kind of thing, the sexual part, and that s it! The bedroom/sex dominants. They sometimes dont give a shit about how you are doing, as long as they can do their "play" thing... No connection, at all, just casual play....
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The exchange is an example of the type of behaviour that makes the idea of a humanity test get traction. That person wouldn't say that to you in a public place, why do they think it's acceptable online. I apologise on behalf of all the creepy men. tj
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