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So you have taken the BDSMTest and now you think you’re a Dom…. Everyone knows the test I am talking about. Well here is the thing, you can’t call yourself a Dom because the test says so and you know you like abuse people and order people around. It isn’t a title you give yourself; it is something you earn in my eyes. Being a Dom is so much more than that, and until you have my respect and trust, you will mean absolutely nothing . Sending an opening message the likes of “Hey slut, do you like get used hard?” only shows you are a cunt really. Do you know what it really means be a Dom? It takes patience, it usually takes a long time grow that trust, it takes control. It scares reading some peoples profiles and comment on here just what their interpretation of the role is. It is just plain simple abuse in some cases, and I get scared for those who are at their most vulnerable. I have been there and luckily, I was not abused but I reckon I easily could have been. Let’s just keep looking out for one another. I would say 90% of the Dom or other type of roles profiles I see are lovely and understanding of what it means, but that %, they can cause more trouble than the 90% put together. Just a few thoughts from today. Much love to all. |
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Abuse and order around is not a kink for most domiants. Specially abuse, that is not a style most dominat (male or female) wish to do. Ordering around for the sake of ordering around, is erratically not my forte'. Yes, may guys do that stuff. To me they are not dominant, but domineering. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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If you consider "The Story of O" as classic, you will note that he never verbally abuses "O" 
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Thank you, for this writing, i did fall for that bullshit dom play. He just manipulated me into stuff, i never would Otherwise have accepted to be done to my body. I was soo blind! i just wanted to "experience" SM/ dominance Waited soo many years! During the whole of our contact, i kept on waiting for his dominance to show.... it was pure abuse, egoistic porn re inacting. It was all about HIS fantansies. had nothing to do with me, at all. That dangerous vanilla moron is still active in the Dutch scene... He did not know ONE thing about bd-SM, hard limits, negotiation, and all that. he was just one of the many moronic imbecils/ vanillas, who think, that putting on some title makes them "dominant". Abuse and violence against women, it is.
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Oh, and the men, who take that test, and put it on their profile, ? make a laughing stock of themselfs! Advertise their own lack of SM protocol, knowledge. I always laugh my tits or, when i see such test in profiles. They do the vetting for you!
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maxroper, verbal abuse is a fetish, it is also called degradation, humiliation. not every one is into that shit. having a certain kind of fetish does not say you are a good decent dominant, at all. On the contrary, i think a lot of men are into "that shit", just because they dont know one thing about the preferences of submissives, possible in SM. It mostly tells more about their mental state then anything else... the porn version.
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