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Poetess They are great pics  I don't know the answer but it seems we are what we are as a combination of nature and nurture! Why do some people switch? Did they have mixed parenting? A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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1/11/2020 8:06 pm |
My daughters grew up without their mother. Today, the elder girl is the most perfectly dominant personality I have ever met and the younger can switch in a blink. Nature or nurture? I just don't know.
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I think a large part of it is what is naturally inside of us.
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I agree with your study. I always have said it was nature and not that you woke up one day and said I want to be submissive or the dominant one. ots something that comes out from deep with in us.
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1/11/2020 11:37 pm |
I had a very passive mother, yet turned out submissive myself, so in my case, I do not conform to your theory.
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1/12/2020 4:39 am |
I've been hoping to come across something like this. Thank you, Poetess. Both the precis of DBS theory and your own thoughts are very informative. I'm interested in how this might illuminate what I think is the conspicuous and puzzling asymmetry of heterosexual D/s: the great excess of submissive men compared with the number of dominant women. People tend to attribute the large numbers of submissive women and dominant men to social conditioning, but that theory breaks down when it comes to explaining the number of male subs. My parents separated when I was two years old. On the basis of DBS, this might explainwhy I'm more a switch than anything else (if we're going to categorise people on the basis of their sexual tastes). However, I've always related it to the vaguely sexual games I used to play with a girl of about my age, when we were both about six.
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My parent's parenting style was "unavailable", so I'm not sure how I became so dominant in my day to day life and so submissive in my play life? Interesting thoughts though. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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8/7/2022 5:15 pm |
Very interesting reading.
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