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There are cookies?  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I have met a few wonderful people through ALT, albeit with 3 different identities. I am still in contact with most of them. One or two broke my heart, and there have been a lot of c**k teasers and fakes. But clearly I am an optimist as far as ALT is concerned, although it does seem to be getting harder to find play partners. I still get a kick out of looking at profiles pictures and videos, and playing find the fakes, and of course reading your blog, Infinitepoetess!
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2/17/2020 1:18 pm |
You have coffee or milk to go with the cookies? Pretty much all I do is read blogs and every so often strike up a conversation on IM when it's working. I have found a kinky FWB for now and that works
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Using alt for dating does work, but it works better if you have a premium membership with email access. I identify as poly amorous, but that usually works out to being serially monogamous. Establishing trust in this lifestyle is a full time job and once you've put the work in you usually don't have time to play the field. Now do it get some cookies?
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open to dating
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I've met people from alt but only as friends. I've talked with quite a few Mistresses online but a relationship has just not been in the cards. One day I will get that Royal Flush.
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2/17/2020 6:39 pm |
most profiles on here are just scammers
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Cookies...It is Girl Scout selling time of year if you are seeking out those kind of edible cookies. I have someone on another site who refers to cookies as her orgasms. Therefore, which cookies would you enjoy having?
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You are a delicious looking piece of candy......yummy
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When I first joined here I was single and mostly interested in just finding a FWB. I'm a one-man-woman, even in a FWB type thing, but I didn't make a commitment to the first guy I met. I dated a few guys from here before I met the right one. I didn't know anything about this lifestyle, that's just how dating works in general, right? U can't possibly know if someone is the right fit for u unless u spend the time to get to know them. I have discovered tho that a lot of the guys on here get super possessive super fast! Surprisingly fast. Like, before u have time to breath they seem to expect u belong to them. Even for a submissive like me that's a huge turn off. I think it takes time to develop that trust and chemistry a good relationship needs... and u need to have A LOT trust if ur gonna let a guy come at u w/ a whip and restraints! ;-p
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My 2 cents, for what it's worth... Meeting people through Alt, is no different than meeting someone casually at a bar, or wherever... You chat, develop thoughts and feelings about them and pursue the relationship or, for whatever reason, don't.. It's networking and putting yourself out there in a semi-safe way, hoping for the best...
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poetess I met some-one from here years ago and we are still friends but do not date I met another CD from her end it was a disaster! He was as "thick as a brick"! The Brain remains the most powerful sex organ  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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2/19/2020 8:00 am |
Alt obviously works for some but not for others. A lot must depend on the people and also their locations. It seems most I have got to know are at the other end of the country.
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It is a difficult question because for me its the desire to want to play is so big but at the same time it takes so much trust and understanding that it is worth the wait. Personally I do not play in person very often, its more of waiting for someone that you have that connection with where the trust and understanding is not a question, its just a given.
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I did meet some people, but not by alt, that was via Fet or that Dutch site. i dont like to let people "play" with my body, without any emotional attachment. it had 2 men do things to me.... Thát had nothing to do with bdsm/power, Authority transfer. When spring comes a long, i might be going to munches again, just to talk. Trust is not part of a sex game. casual pick-up sm is something i cant do. It is not about fetishes, or fantasies, but about the connection.
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2/22/2020 2:19 pm |
dating on alt and elsewhere should be the same in my mind, sometimes it takes meeting a variety of people before you find something special!
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2/24/2020 4:29 am |
I don’t’ know what you mean by “dating”. I meet people that I hope to have a relationship with, but that is just a meet and greet and goes no further if a connection is not made or an interest expressed. I find that if you have an interest, a connection and relationship will quickly follow. And that connection and relationship, whatever type it is, grows deep extremely fast in a vacuum of feelings and emotions.
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luv to know
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Guau, wo
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Met some great ladies here. Had great conversations.
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3/1/2020 10:44 am |
For me dating in the lifestyle is the same as any other dating scene.. I get to hand over my hard earned cash and get nothing in return. But as i am slightly mad i am also an optimist and a realist. For a woman is much easier to find a play mate then for a man, face it it is so specially if the woman is good looking. I find a lack of respect, trust and selfishness going on, most of the older generation still have respect, lots of the younger ones completely lack any form and they believe it's all about them. Not only in the lifestyle but in general. Do i still love dating.. yes do i think i find the right one here on ALT or general..no. I take it a date at the time and see where it goes. Been hurt too many times to trust and it will take a long time to trust again. Just my thoughts.. sorry for the rant.
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3/2/2020 12:49 am |
lots of different flavours, I like to try them all
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3/5/2020 8:49 am |
I suppose I am a sub husband, not cuck just a frustrated husband who would like to try new thing but the wife is just vanilla.
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I love art... 
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3/12/2020 5:00 am |
[post 1172192] It's an interesting question. I find alt provides superficial fun, but few actual deep connections that go to the next level. I find it easier in RL to connect and to explore from there.
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