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Mark Him Red and Be Done  I have been haunting these halls many years now. The decade hiatus while in a relationship was a blessing. I find myself back at square one. Most submissives here who are real, know that there are a multitude of players that we find frustrating and a waste of our time. I, personally, always say though, time reveals all. No matter how good they dress their game, over time you will find the red flags if they are there. Actions speak louder than any words. Red flags are the gut feeling you get when something occurs repeatedly and is a pattern or a sign of bad things come. This is why us old schoolers take our time. Just have a little fun on the submissive end, I thought I would share my red flag categories for Doms for you today. If you have a category you would like to add, please place below in comments RED FLAG LIST Fickle Dom - Talks to you for hours on end at first. Then as time goes on, he is less and less available. When he tells you he will call back and doesn't for the third time, ditch him like trash girlfriend. Narcissistic Dom - He is hot, he has a great job, he is the best fucking Dom ever and if you don't believe him ask. He also gaslights you at every turn. His main purpose is to give emotional pain and he isn't going to listen to a damned word you say. Who the hell do you think you are anyway? Oh and the endless stories about himself....zzzzzzz Lush Dom - He hides his alcoholism for a little while and then he gets a reason to drink and it can be days before you have a cohesive conversation or he may accuse you of saying something you didn't. Drop this one like a bad habit because next will be ED or worse. Busy Bee Dom /Paranoid Dom - He is so busy he can't ever talk or he is worried about you calling him at certain times. This one is married or has a girlfriend, trust me. *Exception is he is paranoid because of past wrong doings by subs and then refer to a post I did called Butcher's Bill Overlord Dom - He is controlling to the point of ridiculous. You will find yourself not winning in this case ever. He wants to tell you when to pee and how. It is unsustainable at this rate and will fail anyway. Cut your losses. Set U.p Dom - Its ok t.o occasionally be set u.p t.o get punishment. This guy does it non-stop. He wants to punish you. Needs to punish you, and just can't help himself. He is going to punish you.'Hurry u.p it's punishment time again Nough said....move on. Grumpy Dom - His bad mood is endless and an endless drain. Try as you might, he cannot be made happy for longer than twenty-four hours. Do yourself a favor and get rid of this negativity. He can try t.o dress it u.p as bravado but eventually he will be abusive verbally. Hasta la vista baby! Disappearing Dom - He has a profile, now he doesn't or it is turned off. Either he is hiding from the Dom that he slighted or else he has a psycho sub stalking him. Likely it is a wife or girlfriend.. Either way, let him sort it all out and quit acting shady. Little Boy Dom - He is 23 and hot bodied. He wants your devotion online totally before he will give you anything you want or else he is a submissive disguising himself as a Dom. Either way, go back to Dom School and let m.e know in about ten years if you still want t.o . wait, I will be 60, so I don't think so. Sheesh, I'm old enough t.o be your Mom.my...I digress Good Luck! Song addition for this post Say My Name - Destiny's C.hil.d |
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Say My Name Destiny's Child Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change Any other day I would call and you would say Baby how's your day But today, it ain't the same Every other word Is "uh-huh" yeah "okay" Could it be that you Are at the crib with another lady If you took it there First of all, let me say I am not the one To sit around, and be played So prove yourself to me I am the girl that you claim Why don't you say the thangs That you said to me yesterday I know you say that I am assuming things Something's going down that's the way it seems Shouldn't be the reason why you're acting strange If nobody's holding you back from me Cause I know how you usually do When you say everything to me times two Why can't you just tell the truth If somebody's there then tell me who Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change What is up with this Tell the truth, who you with How would you like it if I came over with my clique Don't try to change it now See you gotta bounce When two seconds ago You said you just got in the house It's hard to believe that you Are at home, by yourself When I just heard the voice Heard the voice of someone else Just this question why Do you feel you gotta lie Gettin' caught up in your game When you can not say my name I know you say that I am assuming things Something's going down that's the way it seems Shouldn't be the reason why you're acting strange If nobody's holding you back from me Cause I know how you usually do When you say everything to me times two Why can't you just tell the truth If somebody's there then tell me who Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change I know you say that I am assuming things Something's going down that's the way it seems Shouldn't be the reason why you're acting strange If nobody's holding you back from me Cause I know how you usually do When you say everything to me times two Why can't you just tell the truth If somebody's there then tell me who Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change Say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Baby say my name, say my name, say my name If no one is around you Say baby I love you If you ain't runnin' game Say my name, say my name You actin' kinda shady Ain't callin' me baby Why the sudden change
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 Slave rick
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5/2/2020 8:42 am |
Let us not forget the "Right Dom" if in fact such a Dom exists.
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is that as opposed to what ? i find the exact same qualities in subs
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5/2/2020 9:23 am |
My current game is Horizon Zero Dawn. I'm not so two dimensional to fit into a box. I've been a lot of things, but I've never been a lier, and I won't fuck people over. If the flame has died and the fire is gone. Then you're in the wrong situation. One person can't give all of the time, and one person can't take all of the time. Today It's going to be nothing but high voltage rock and roll. Peace out.
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I have my own red flags for "submissives". . The first one has nothing to do with submission. But i have this thing about names on women I will date/get involved with. The mai one is women with the name Sandy. Nothing against the name per say or anyone with that name, no matter how you spell it. Same for most women who's name ends with Y. But based on experience, Sandy has not been a good name for me to et involved with on a personal basis. I can work with a Sandy, I hae relatives named Sandy. But for me to date another one would nearly take an act of Congress. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Let us not forget the "Right Dom" if in fact such a Dom exists. 
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is that as opposed to what ? i find the exact same qualities in subs  *twirling my locks and twisting my foot on the ground
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I have my own red flags for "submissives". . The first one has nothing to do with submission. But i have this thing about names on women I will date/get involved with. The mai one is women with the name Sandy. Nothing against the name per say or anyone with that name, no matter how you spell it. Same for most women who's name ends with Y. But based on experience, Sandy has not been a good name for me to et involved with on a personal basis. I can work with a Sandy, I hae relatives named Sandy. But for me to date another one would nearly take an act of Congress. Mine is Mark or any spelling of that word lol I don't now why
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5/2/2020 9:47 am |
I really can't understand why people cannot be open, honest and genuine about who and what they are. The world would be a far better place if they did!
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My current game is Horizon Zero Dawn. I'm not so two dimensional to fit into a box. I've been a lot of things, but I've never been a lier, and I won't fuck people over. If the flame has died and the fire is gone. Then you're in the wrong situation. One person can't give all of the time, and one person can't take all of the time. Today It's going to be nothing but high voltage rock and roll. Peace out.
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Slave rick 
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5/2/2020 12:09 pm |
No it wasn't about me and thank you for being so nice, but Horizon Zero Dawn is my game for now.
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My, oh, My, i almost get more depressed than i already am, by reading this list... Are there any sincere, genuine Dominants left, anyway?  I bet you even missed some categorie.. still... they are endless...  , in their game playing.....
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Dom Knotts: TYPES IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS. A.L.W.A.Y.S. SCREAMS errrr COMMANDS OPENMOUTHED AT A DECIBEL LEVEL ONLY HAWKS AND BLING DOGS CAN HEAR, UNTIL A STATE OF DOMLY LOCKJAW IS OBTAINED THEREBY DEMONSTRATING SPITTING AND HUMILIATION FOR YOUR PLEASURE ON HIS 'GIVING' LIST. WHY HE'S TWITCHING AND HIS HEAD IS BOBBING IS UNCLEAR. Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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The Moody Designer Dom Leather boots(black), leather chaps(black), leather jockstrap(black...and studded!),leather vest(black), leather jacket(black), leather gauntlet riding gloves(black), leather hat(black), 2 leather whips at the hips(black), leather leash and collar hanging over a shoulder. Now adorned in 150# of back breaking manly protective gear, Dom D'Armani, unable to walk or even stand, kneels on all fours bellowing, mooing and groaning while doing something with his jaws which looks suspiciously like cud chewing. No worries, I'm sure its just his manly dominant order(black) being delivered to his slave who is now laying supine on the floor looking up into his face with a "got milk? smile Sometimes I make a move, sorry to leave my home, but hope I will find another of equal character. At night I gaze at the starry mass with no idea to which one the earth attached. May'be that cute little one over there or that one that sits alone in the inky black. ~~ 'My place amongst the stars' c/o former member SPB ~~
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I really can't understand why people cannot be open, honest and genuine about who and what they are. The world would be a far better place if they did!
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My, oh, My, i almost get more depressed than i already am, by reading this list... Are there any sincere, genuine Dominants left, anyway? I bet you even missed some categorie.. still... they are endless... , in their game playing.....
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How about the narcissistic Dom who gaslights you every chance he gets. And when you do bring up your gut instinct he gaslights you even more. Run far away from this Dom.
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Danger will Robinson
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Exactly thank you!!! Mine is Mark or any spelling of that word lol I don't now why
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How about the narcissistic Dom who gaslights you every chance he gets. And when you do bring up your gut instinct he gaslights you even more. Run far away from this Dom. 
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Yes...I should add him and will right now. Both sides should have this nasty piece of work. I think we both know one
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I've met all of these " Doms" at one point in my life or another. I say ***K "EM All.! Kudos to you for the list. xxxx. Love the song. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I've met all of these " Doms" at one point in my life or another. I say ***K "EM All.! Kudos to you for the list. xxxx. Love the song. 
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Good one!!!
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