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I thrive on that routine and consistency in that I get anxious without it to guide me. The D/s relationship just feeds into my soul and fills that need i have for regularity.
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It’s hard not to respond viscerally to the sense of the challenges you describe- I feel for you more than you know. When alone (and all the more in crisis), the demands of a submissive’s inner nature can so conflict with the demands of nature without that for many the effect is that of a ship’s losing (or at least loosening) its keel. There’s a saying in the world of crisis management training that, despite myths to the contrary, we don’t so much rise to occasions as fall back to our training. This is why I have always peppered the development of psychological and physical skills for surviving- or better yet thriving- in my absence (with lessons accompanied by the simple reminder that “I could be dead tomorrow”) into the along-term training of every submissive, appropriate to her individual history and challenges. As to what’s in it for me, it’s pretty simple... If I love someone, doing so helps me sleep easier at night. All of that said, I hope circumstances find the two of you inhabiting your happiest places very soon!
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You are accomplished, dominant in your own right in your career and daily life. It's tough that the two of you are separated by distance and travel bans. You are there for one another and both of you will persevere in the long game. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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I just want to balance a submissive on my lap today. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I'm going to lie, but it was hard to read the full post, when I kept getting stuck on the picture, but I am sure it was a point well taken.
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I think you're doing a fine old job of managing on a day to day basis... sure as hell I don't feel like I'm doing much except help with the laundry.
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8/13/2020 1:07 pm |
Balance is something we strive for.
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