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Love/Hate Relationships With Beautiful  I love my body...And, I hate my body...I.t is a love/hate relationship. Just like every woman on the face of the planet, I have insecurities and weaknesses in my view of my own self image. I try t.o focus purely on the parts of I love, because th.ere are some things we can change as a woman. But, then some Jacka.ss makes a comment about you, and your self-image plummets. comes harder, that my skin has changed, my firmness has changed and everything about my body has changed. I am in the over fif.ty battle and gravity is winning. Time is out lapping me and going t.o take the ribbon. But guess what honey, so are theirs...None of us are making it out without aging. Beyond gravity, is the reality that peo-ple (men and women) have traumas like bearing , car accidents, and other things that render them t.o be disfigured in so0me fashion. That doesn't fit into the eyes of what is perfection for too many, as altruistic as they envision themselves. I have often wondered, if we could see souls, if that would redefine beauty... For a soul has imperfections too and which is more important? I would much rather love a beautiful soul than a beautiful body. It's good to say that, but what's the reality? The reality is, we judge with our eyes. If I judge with my eyes, I no longer see what is important. I see what my mind thinks is beautiful. I try t.o see my own imperfection and find the beauty in i.t . A scar from ch.ild bi,rth made a human being come from her wo.mb. She is the creator of that life. That is what's beautiful about my own scar, which goes hip to hip, due to complications. I.t is the definition of that act, completely selfless, that makes me beautiful. This is what I tell myself. Whoever doesn't see that beauty is shallow and worthless in my eyes. I don't care if he looks like Adonis, with a coc.k the size of my favorite dil.do...He can fu.ck right off. I've made the decision they can also join the Narcissistic Fuc.kwit pile too.  I have a love/hate relationship with the concept of what is beautiful... Song addition for this post Video - India Arie |
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Video India Arie Sometimes I shave my legs and sometimes I don't Sometimes I comb my hair and sometimes I won't Depend of how the wind blows I might even paint my toes It really just depends on whatever feels good in my soul I'm not the average girl from your video And I ain't built like a supermodel But I learned to love myself unconditionally Because I am a queen I not the average girl from your video My worth is not determined by the price of my clothes No matter what I'm wearing I will always be India.Arie When I look in the mirror and the only one there is me Every freckle on my face is where it's suppose to be And I know my creator didn't make no mistakes on me My feet, my thighs, my lips, my eyes, I'm loving what I see I'm not the average girl from your video And I ain't built like a supermodel But I learned to love myself unconditionally Because I am a queen I not the average girl from your video My worth is not determined by the price of my clothes No matter what I'm wearing I will always be India.Arie Am I less of a lady if I don't wear panty hose My momma said a lady ain't what she wears but what she knowsâ?¦ But I've drawn the conclusion, it's all an illusion Confusion's the name of the game A misconception, a mass deception, Something gotta change Now don't be offended this is all my opinion Ain't nothing that I'm saying law This is a true confession Of a life learned lesson I was sent here to share with y'all So get in when you fit in Go on and shine Clear your mind Now's the time Put your salt on the shelf Go on and love yourself Cause everything's gonna be alright I'm not the average girl from your video And I ain't built like a supermodel But I learned to love myself unconditionally Because I am a queen I not the average girl from your video My worth is not determined by the price of my clothes No matter what I'm wearing I will always be India.Arie Keep your fancy drink, and your expensive minks I don't need that to have a good time Keep your expensive cars and your caviar All I need is my guitar Keep your crystal and your pistol I'd rather have a pretty piece of crystal Don't need you silicone, I prefer my own What god gave me is just fine I'm not the average girl from your video And I ain't built like a supermodel But I learned to love myself unconditionally Because I am a queen I not the average girl from your video My worth is not determined by the price of my clothes No matter what I'm wearing I will always be India.Arie
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Well your beautiful soul does show in our writing. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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All of those imperfections make us unique and that's what attracts me 
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I love this piece because I relate to it so much. My love/hate relationship w/ my body is over, though it took a very long time to get here. I'm glad I made it. Thanks for sharing this great piece.xxxx "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I've never had a problem with women's body changes from pregnancy. It's a natural part of life. Let's face it, not many women go for tummy tucks and I'm not paying for one either. PS I find those tiger stripes to be hot. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Poetess, it's about the right dom/Master loving those things that you think are imperfect. Any man who has children knows that the mother of his children will have a different body with the changes from child birth. If he is not willing to accept those imperfections he should not want children...just saying
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beautifully said. as always! : )
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It's those imperfections that make you ladies perfect Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Well your beautiful soul does show in our writing. 
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All of those imperfections make us unique and that's what attracts me
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I love this piece because I relate to it so much. My love/hate relationship w/ my body is over, though it took a very long time to get here. I'm glad I made it. Thanks for sharing this great piece.xxxx
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I've never had a problem with women's body changes from pregnancy. It's a natural part of life. Let's face it, not many women go for tummy tucks and I'm not paying for one either. PS I find those tiger stripes to be hot.
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Poetess, it's about the right dom/Master loving those things that you think are imperfect. Any man who has children knows that the mother of his children will have a different body with the changes from child birth. If he is not willing to accept those imperfections he should not want children...just saying
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beautifully said. as always! : )
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