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To You From The Poetess This time, a year ago, dark days were upon my doorstep. It was my first Christmas without my late husband, and I wanted t.o crawl into bed t.o not wake up until New Year's had passed. I spent that week in a rented Air B'nB house because I couldn't bear the holidays within our old home. Too many memories t.o haunt me, too many laughs that would never occur again, too many promises of tomorrow that would never come t.o be. Yes, it was a dark time in my life... "Life happens and it goes on the next day" ~Poetess People always ask me how I am doing now. The reality is that the current -pandemic has given me a grace period t.o grieve and t.o find myself again. It has taken the burden off of me t.o be in social structures that would be uncomfortable. It has allowed time t.o pass and t.o heal my heart. It has given m.e time t.o write and create, t.o feel and emote. Therefore I have found the virus has graced m/e with lots of gifts, even through the challenges I have learned many lessons and some came with a price, like losing my friend Adam t.o COVID. It has taught m.e that no matter how many tools we have in our arsenal, we are all human and have t.o allow the human processes t.o happen. And lastly, it has taught me great -patience and resolve t,o live each day t.o my fullest. One of the tools death has given m,e, is the ability t.o stop people from being self absorbed, if only for a second. When someone starts bitching about the shut downs, or the election, or their family member drama...I tell them I will be spending my holiday alone because I am widowed, and for a minute, they forget t.o worry about the small stuff and focus on their gratitude for what they have. If you are alone this Christmas, know that I se.nd you a big virtual hug and heartfelt sentiment that you are able t,o find the joys and gifts you can in your solitude. In the end, tomorrow will come whether we want it t.o or not, so you may as well enjoy what you can of this day. May you have many more days to be grateful... Song addition for this post Happy Christmas - John Lennon |
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Happy Christmas John Lennon So this is Christmas And what have you done Another year over A new one just begun And so this is Christmas I hope you have fun The near and the dear ones The old and the young A very merry Christmas And a happy New Year Let's hope it's a good one Without any fears And so this is Christmas For weak and for strong The rich and the poor ones The war is so long And so happy Christmas For black and for white For yellow and red ones Let's stop all the fights A very merry Christmas And a happy New Year Let's hope it's a good one Without any fears And so this is Christmas And what have we done Another year over A new one just begun And so happy Christmas We hope you have fun The near and the dear ones The old and the young A very merry Christmas (And a happy New Year) Ooh, oh (Let's hope it's a good one) It's a good, it's a good one Without any fear And so this is Christmas And what have we done Another year over A new one just begun
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Yes life can be very hard at times. some never get over it. but it seems you are strong enough too. and time does heel if you let it. try to enjoy this time of yr anyway. all my best wish's are with you.
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Merry Christmas Poetic
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It's what I call " The empty chair syndrome " & I know it so well ! So thank you for the virtual hug & the same straight back at you !!! Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year !!! Take Care & Stay Safe !!!!
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This Christmas will be one remembered for a long time.....not for all the hate and discontent but for those that gave unselfishly for others. Merry Christmas to you
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Merry Christmas! looking forward to read your new writing!
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Thank you and same to you Slave rick
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Merry Christmas and may you find much Happiness in the New Year. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Poetess, You are a great student of life. Your writing provides some lessons for us all. Wishing you a Healthy New Year. My wish of choice as there is no Happy without Healthy.
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12/24/2020 12:20 pm |
Merry Christmas love! 100 years from now most of this will be forgotten Peace to us, Bill
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I was due to spend boxing day with my nieces. Unfortunately we have a new super easy to spread variant of Covid in the south east of the UK now. So we've been told no mixing between households, so thats stuffed that idea. Oh well better safe than sorry. Sorry for your loss. You are right we should always be thankful for what we have, rather than what we don't have. Thank you for the hug & please know I am sending you warm thoughts & a big hug from the UK.
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12/24/2020 8:15 pm |
Merry Christmas
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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year's. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Yes life can be very hard at times. some never get over it. but it seems you are strong enough too. and time does heel if you let it. try to enjoy this time of yr anyway. all my best wish's are with you. All traumas change us as people somewhat. Best wishes to you too xx
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Merry Christmas Poetic
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Merry Christmas DaddynMaster
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This Christmas will be one remembered for a long time.....not for all the hate and discontent but for those that gave unselfishly for others. Merry Christmas to you
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Merry Christmas! looking forward to read your new writing!
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Thank you and same to you Slave rick Merry Christmas to you and yours my friend
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Merry Christmas and may you find much Happiness in the New Year.
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Poetess, You are a great student of life. Your writing provides some lessons for us all. Wishing you a Healthy New Year. My wish of choice as there is no Happy without Healthy. All my wishes for a Happy New Year!
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Merry Christmas love! 100 years from now most of this will be forgotten Peace to us, Bill Peace to you and yours xx
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I was due to spend boxing day with my nieces. Unfortunately we have a new super easy to spread variant of Covid in the south east of the UK now. So we've been told no mixing between households, so thats stuffed that idea. Oh well better safe than sorry. Sorry for your loss. You are right we should always be thankful for what we have, rather than what we don't have. Thank you for the hug & please know I am sending you warm thoughts & a big hug from the UK. Happy Christmas and New Year1
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Merry Christmas
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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year's.
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