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10/17/2021 3:46 am |
That is a such sad story to me. The Gift can never be earned but it sure can be take advantage of by an inattentive Dom. I don't know who said it but it fits right here, "A wise man learns from his mistakes. But a truly wise man learns from the mistakes of others." This is a mistake I'll never allow myself to make once she's Mine. Thanks for posting!
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Splendid 
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I think this is pretty common in relationships. There is much attention in the pursuit of what one desires. During the early stages, people are on best behavior. It take a bit to let the guard down and to just relax in a relationship. For example, when out and about, does your potential/new partner fart in your presence? Do they always look their best? He may shave every day to be as smooth as your female in teh post above indicated she took the time to do? He may go unshaven on weekend days when he didn't while courting. The question is, is he or she ignoring or otherwise neglecting the other party? Did they just get comfortable? Is there something going on with the others health or mental state? Are they stressed from work and really need the down time? In my observations of other over the years and for myself, I can say that once I am truly comfortable with someone, I would not say I take them for granted, I just don't feel the pressure to always be "on". Also, for men, as they age (in particular over 40) their sex drive is not as strong. Viagra has alleviated some of that performance stress physically for many, but there may still be the mental stress of performance anxiety. Males as a rule just don't have the capacity to be at peak sexual performance as they age. Males, are different than females in term of how they act and feel emotionally. What is that book, Men are from Mars Women are from Venus? I think, many males feel others are perhaps "needly" if attention is requested as they perceive as too much. That is a reason why many older dominants are not big fans of "bratty" behaviors which demand negative attention. I am sure your post person is not needy or bratty, just wondering why the amount of attention has dropped off. I would not worry too much, but suggest be subtle and patient. But of course if it continues and other means of communication drop off, I would suggest having a talk about your feeling and what is going on. Fellows don't always pick up on the needs emotionally of their partners, ; be they vanilla or kinky. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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& there was me expecting, at least, something by Pink Floyd !!!!!
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go Isabelle!
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10/17/2021 6:25 am |
Did not expect to see such good poetry here
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Isabelle knows what she wants in her stocking 
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They are past their *new relation energy* and now what? The tipping point, of no return?
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Of course she dares and i'm sure it will serve as the perfect reminder If it doesn't, flick him on the balls in a 'just checking they're still alive' way. It would certianly wake up his spanking hand  Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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& there was me expecting, at least, something by Pink Floyd !!!!! Not quite a sensual song, though ........ D-J xx
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