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drmgirl622 68F  
26111 posts
3/9/2022 2:53 pm

I find that some of my limits change based on the Mistress I am serving. I believe it's a matter of the type of connection we have established. Sure, there are some hard limits that will never change but ones that weren't really thought out or were uncomfortable seem to be in flux.


Darkstar6469 71M
129 posts
3/9/2022 3:02 pm

Right on the mark. Nicely written.


rondiri 65M
11180 posts
3/9/2022 3:05 pm

Very well put.
I hope the folks that need to hear it, read this.
The words could save relationships and maybe a few lives.


Artschoolgrad 47M
8719 posts
3/9/2022 5:01 pm

everyone should read this.


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9672 posts
3/9/2022 5:46 pm

You are spot on. Communication and safety are key in M/s relations. Filtering out the bad operators is certainly challenging.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


ridermantel 68M

3/9/2022 10:10 pm

This is very good. It's a "must read."


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
3/10/2022 2:46 am

This is a wonderfully written piece. It is so important to share this information with the community. When I read someone's profile, it says they have "No Limits", I run for the hills.
Don't get me wrong, I like having my limits tested. But it has come with significant
amount of trust.
Great song too.
xx~M

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


rosaenaluin 65F
11008 posts
3/10/2022 10:29 am

Great writing!
When i read; no limits slave, or sub or domina, i always start laughing and say to myself;
Oh? you dont have limits?
Alright, chop of your left ball, arm, ear...?
See!
All of the sudden, they do have limits!
every one has limits, subs, doms alike.

Also, when such a person starts talking about wanting to push my limits, without even get to know mé....?
Very dangerous folks.
Run for the hills!

I know, i am talking with someone who really has no idea about MY safety...
sane, safe and consensual, hard limits, soft limits...
Or, does not care......


rosaenaluin 65F
11008 posts
3/10/2022 10:32 am

I like what drmgirl says, i recognise that, too.
Limits can change.

I like the drawing.



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