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Definitely worse than vanilla. It's harder to find the right match in a D/s relationship, unless you don't mind a revolving door of partners in a trial and error search.
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Everything is relative. I have seen breakups in so called vanilla relationships end very terribly. Anger and resentment prompt very angry and anguished responses. In way, I would think the intensity of a long term relationship that breaks up without warning, would be very traumatic for a submissive. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Thank you. Just got scammed and dumped by a woman Dom on here. I am dealing with all the feelings and this was very helpful.
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3/13/2022 11:49 am |
I am sorry for your hurt.
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What is sad about this is the betrayal of trust. It colors how you look at new people.
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So many times we don't know the half of the minds and spirits of those we are involved with. We can project so much wishful thinking upon relationships that our expectations can be beyond realistic hopes so that when things fall apart we can't understand what we never understood in the first place. Sad but true. It still hurts and slows us down in the trust of others in the future.
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I thank you for a truly excellent post. It helped me to not feel so guilty when I ‘dump’ a slave. I try to not feel guilty but, eventually, I become so weary of being completely in charge of the life of another human being. To put it simply, I can no longer handle the stress. Vanilla people have no clue and I suspect that most slaves also have no clue. They have no idea what it is like to try to be a truly deserving Master 24/7. They have no idea what it feels like to pretend that I am ‘God’ 24/7. Recently, I have been working with a male slave. For some reason, he thinks that I (his Master) want him to purposely get infected so he is HIV positive. [Not my intentions.] Also, I have an e-slave in Cleveland OH. He wants to be completely ‘womanized’ and wants me to visit him so I can use a sharp butcher knife to remove all ‘unnecessary appendages’. No fuckin’ way. To those slaves who have recently been dumped by their Master and who are contemplating suicide, here is my advice: “Procrastinate. Don’t do today what you can always do tomorrow. Death is a one-way street and Duct tape can’t fix everything....” Years ago, I’m glad I took my own advice. I had my loaded 12 gauge shotgun with the barrel pressed tightly against my forehead. That was 30 years ago and life has had its ‘ups and downs’ during those 30 years. But I am still glad that I waited until ‘tomorrow’ before I pulled the trigger because the ‘up’ swings yielded many MANY beautiful memories that I never ever expected.
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I was essentially dumped by my mommy and girlfriend of four years when she just up and moved away. I was devastated and it took me what seemed like forever to get over it, so I understand the posters point perfectly.
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It all hurts very deeply and you can't help blaming yourself. I liken a breakup to death and each of us grieve in our own manner. In the end, all will work out and life will go on in some manner.
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sending you a whole buncha hugs
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Great Read & Info. Thanks for sharing.xx "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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really sorry my friend very big hugs!!
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Thank you for sharing this- sage advice. … sending good thoughts.
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 Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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