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Living The Fantasy  So many within the community speak of living it 24/7. It's an option on most sites to describe what people are seeking. Then, I read their write ups full of novice wording and can't help but think that reality and fantasy are two different realms, of which they have no knowledge beyond their masturbation sessions. 24/7 means: 1. Arguments when I've had enough of being submissive in a situation. 2. Realizing his faults because even gods have their faults, and loving him anyway 3. Doing as told even when you want to hit him in the face and call him a narcissistic fuck. 4. Sticking with it even when you want to run. 5. Doing for his happiness when you truly want to have your own happiness and be a little narcissistic just because you're tired of giving in 6. Realizing he has weaknesses and isn't the rock of Gibraltar always 7. Listening to his criticism, being pissed and then sucking up to own your part. Can you handle it? Are you up to the task? Or are you thinking of negotiations to make and boundaries you have? It is the ultimate commitment and no contract can tell you where that will end up for you emotionally. This thing we do is a beautiful menagerie of pain and pleasure when done well, but it will also break you down and destroy you if not done well. It will wrench out your heart a thousand times and you'll sew it back together and do it with gladness because it is what you desire. It is fractured and<b> messy </font></b>and never what you imagined. But, when it is all said and done, you won't be able to be as you were before. That is the rabbit hole of BDSM.... Welcome to reality. That is what the slave meant about paying my dues. That submission and the one weren't going to be in a pretty package delivered to my door with a perfect ribbon on it. That I sought something that took work, some or lots of heartache, and a million moments of elation. It isn't fair or just, it is what happens because life happens. Now maybe you'll rethink the fantasy a little, or live in it blissfully. Song for this post Fade Into You - Mazzy Star |
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I want to hold the hand inside you I want to take the breath that's true I look to you, and I see nothing I look to you to see the truth You live your life, you go in shadows You'll come apart, and you'll go black Some kind of night into your darkness Colors your eyes with what's not there Fade into you Strange you never knew Fade into you I think it's strange you never knew A stranger's light comes on slowly A stranger's heart without a home You put your hands into your head And then smiles cover your heart Fade into you Strange you never knew Fade into you I think it's strange you never knew Fade into you Strange you never knew Fade into you I think it's strange you never knew I think it's strange you never knew
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OUTSTANDINGLY put.  Too many people think our lifestyle is all cut and dried and exactly like their fantasies. Your post is their wake-up call. (good tune by Phil Collins from the Testify album)
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I have a vanilla job and so does he. The reality can be lived but must be catered to needs. We all live in a vanilla world. But I get your separation of the two. Again modifications make all that possible. I raised a kid and lived it 24/7, just sayin and she had no clue until old enough too ask
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5/23/2022 11:20 pm |
24/7 I think not.
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I think the concept of 24/7 scares me because of some of the implications. Yes, I can belong to a Mistress and it permeates my life but it still has some aspects that I'm not sure I could handle.
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Living a 24/7 would be touph for me. I'm not independently wealthy. I need to work in the real world. Although I never said I lived it 24/7. Also ,most of the members are fake, rude, and full of shit. There are only a few members I relate to, and feel comfortable calling them freinds.
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I think the concept of 24/7 scares me because of some of the implications. Yes, I can belong to a Mistress and it permeates my life but it still has some aspects that I'm not sure I could handle.
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23/7 is like everything in what we do....It is determined by negotiations and modifications to fit your life
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She met a guy who claimed to be a dom and was 21. I said to her he doesn't know what he is yet. She said how do you know? I said because your father and I have been Dom and submissive all along. She looked as if a puzzle piece fell in place and she said, that makes perfect sense. It was time so she could understand why I was not more in control.
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Living a 24/7 would be touph for me. I'm not independently wealthy. I need to work in the real world. Although I never said I lived it 24/7. Also ,most of the members are fake, rude, and full of shit. There are only a few members I relate to, and feel comfortable calling them freinds.
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