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8/7/2022 10:33 pm |
In the USA? You must be joking.
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Absolutely true. The Dominant is responsible for the submissive's training, expectations and results. They guide, correct, reward and discipline with the intent on helping the submissive and their relationship be all it they and it can be.
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. my dream is to just meet a nice girl with skills that doesnt mind scrubbing the hull of my boat topless. of course tho, i would get kicked out of my marina. nice poem.
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Teach them, train them, trust them is my motto in business and BDSM.
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. it has always been my opinion that when the female part of the equation falls in love, when her chemistry kicks in, he doesnt need to do anything special to earn her love. when she is in love, he can crap on the dinner table and she will plant flowers in it and tell him what a wonderful thing he has done. but if she is not in love, if her chemistry is not kicked in, he cant do anything right. smart money understands this quirk about females. for the most part, this is true.
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>Thank you but that isn't the whole point... >It's how she is handled in your leadership i stand corrected. btw, the third pic in your profile... i cant tell what the heck that is..
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I absolutely love this piece, N. You certainly covered all the bases. Thank you for sharing such an important message. Great tune as well.  "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Splendide texte
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Nice content. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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I think dominance is like sitting at a potter's wheel and molding and shaping that clay into a work of art.
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Managing people, in general, is a fine-tuned art. Not many are capable of doing so. Shouting, hands waving, pointing with a finger, threatening, ignoring, .... in the business world it is called bullying... don't know the name for it in the Lifestyle... certainly not leadership.
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8/8/2022 10:28 am |
I like your management analogy as I believe very similarly. Thank you for sharing!
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Of course you're right. You must have graduated from West Point. Perfection is a bitch, isn't it? 
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If a Dominant needs to yell, or criticize, he isn't a good dominant. A dominant needs to be even tempered at all times when dealing with a sub/slave. If anger rises, send the sub to a corner until an even temper is reached .
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"If you don't have control of yourself, you have no business controlling another human being, who is a living, breathing, feeling, creature" Spot on- the bar for leadership is rarely set high enough. If the notion that there are excuses for loss of self-control or abandonment of appropriate action under any circumstances seems plausible, it’s tantamount to saying that it’s acceptable to put a submissive in psychological or physical peril due to whim or wind. Reflecting a standard that’s any lower is pathological- and the bar you suggest is but the barest basis, de riguer for even contemplating a healthy exchange. The big “I” is a dangerous- even deadly- thing, and so often preens itself to be sold as worthy leadership. Every SRT should be so lucky as to have you as a guest speaker.
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Dominance and leadership is like having a piece of string. Dominate it in the right direction and it follows nicely, push it too hard and you have a piled up mess. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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2/11/2023 1:04 pm |
Nice writing, Love it. Yes, and that is why a lot of the men, on here, dont have what it takes, because they all, lack this knowledge, insight...... inner controle/power/leadermanship... If they cant even handle a rejection? Get all hysterical and foul mouthed.....?
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7/12/2023 5:44 am |
mmmmmmmmmm
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