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infinitepoetess 54F
6328 posts
8/24/2022 9:25 pm
A State of Confusion



Me: So, if you're poly, do you expect to be the only rooster in the henhouse?
Dom Of Course
Me: Help me understand. It seems like any submissive would tire of that eventually if she is not involved elsewhere also...
Dom: Maybe.
Me: I don't know but I have never known a poly couple that didn't split up.
Dom: Yes I know they usually do. It's unfortunate
Me: Well, if you know that, why would you choose for each relationship to be doomed?
Dom: Up until now they've all been monogamous, They all ended anyway, so I might as well do what I want...
Me: So that's the Butcher's Bill Ok well, thank you for sharing because I do not find the justification good enough to warrant going for it. You see, you and I aren't getting any younger. There will be a time when I want more than a doomsday vision, where I end up old and lonely.

I keep trying to wrap my head around it and can't.
Explain this to me, someone...

Song for this post
Dazed and Confused - Led Zeppelin



infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/24/2022 9:26 pm


ridermantel 68M

8/24/2022 10:16 pm

Beautiful illustration.


Mrpaulux1 55M
227 posts
8/25/2022 12:28 am

Splendide mais tu ecris plus vite que ton ombre lol


aliljaded 53F
8963 posts
8/25/2022 3:07 am

I'd definitely go with "n_u"s" version of poly ... sounds a bit more doable.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


rosaenaluin 65F
11068 posts
8/25/2022 4:05 am

Hmm, interesting....
What my experience is, with socallled "poly" dominants,
That they use the term "poly" to just fuck around, and have it as they like it, when they want it, with whom they want it.

No responsibility, no care.. no commitment.

OOh, they talk the talk.... but !
If you ask more and deeper qeustions, it comes down to "just fucking" around, basically.....

Thát is not poly!
I would not even consider such a person to BE dominant....


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4204 posts
8/25/2022 4:47 am

stupid is as stupid does...you just can’t reason or argue w stupidity!


rondiri 65M
11192 posts
8/25/2022 7:15 am

I haven't been in a poly relationship ...yet. I have my non-live in slave, and I'm searching for a 24/7 slave. I think the key is that all involved actually at least like each other. What breaks up relationships, I think, would be jealousy. I don't know if I'll ever have 2 slaves under one roof, but as the Dominant I would have to be extremely judicious with my time, not playing favorites. IF both slaves are bisexual, it also helps.
Justine's separate house idea, kind of lacks intimacy for all involved, IMO. Not to mention, requires a small fortune. Separate bedrooms, for when each slave needs some alone time, would make sense, though.
It takes a lot of understanding, caring and patience anyway you look at it.


drmgirl622 68F  
26151 posts
8/25/2022 10:47 am

I suppose I'm a little old fashioned but the poly lifestyle really wouldn't work for me.


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9693 posts
8/25/2022 2:20 pm

Nice drawing

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 3:22 pm

Agreed


Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
8/25/2022 3:58 pm

"Explain this to me, someone..."
Nope... not a chance, I'm as confused as you!

"Up until now they've all been monogamous,"
But that's not the defination poly, so he hasn't been in a poly
relationship!

I've heard people talk of being poly before, but how does what
they describe differ from an "open relationship" &/or "being
bi-sexual?"

I think a lot of so called Doms on here, just call themselves Dom
to get what they want & be selfish. Not sure Poly is that different.

Great song choice by the way.


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 5:13 pm

    Quoting  :

Excellent points made. I can't handle the living like sisters shit lol


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 5:13 pm

    Quoting aliljaded:
    I'd definitely go with "n_u"s" version of poly ... sounds a bit more doable.
yes


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 5:14 pm

    Quoting rosaenaluin:
    Hmm, interesting....
    What my experience is, with socallled "poly" dominants,
    That they use the term "poly" to just fuck around, and have it as they like it, when they want it, with whom they want it.

    No responsibility, no care.. no commitment.

    OOh, they talk the talk.... but !
    If you ask more and deeper qeustions, it comes down to "just fucking" around, basically.....

    Thát is not poly!
    I would not even consider such a person to BE dominant....
Agreed 100%


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 5:14 pm

    Quoting bdsmDOMdaddy:
    stupid is as stupid does...you just can’t reason or argue w stupidity!
One of my favorite movies


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 5:14 pm

    Quoting rondiri:
    I haven't been in a poly relationship ...yet. I have my non-live in slave, and I'm searching for a 24/7 slave. I think the key is that all involved actually at least like each other. What breaks up relationships, I think, would be jealousy. I don't know if I'll ever have 2 slaves under one roof, but as the Dominant I would have to be extremely judicious with my time, not playing favorites. IF both slaves are bisexual, it also helps.
    Justine's separate house idea, kind of lacks intimacy for all involved, IMO. Not to mention, requires a small fortune. Separate bedrooms, for when each slave needs some alone time, would make sense, though.
    It takes a lot of understanding, caring and patience anyway you look at it.
A whole lot of work


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/25/2022 5:15 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    I suppose I'm a little old fashioned but the poly lifestyle really wouldn't work for me.
Understand that


rosaenaluin 65F
11068 posts
8/26/2022 1:44 pm

Love the drawing! Very nice!


infinitepoetess 54F
3499 posts
8/27/2022 4:05 pm

good find



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