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Therapist Is Now In Session  I fell in love with BDSM when I stumbled across it in Yahoo Chat, 25 moons ago. Although the idea of bondage, whips, chains, and kink was hot as fuck to me, it was the basic tennets of BDSM and the promise of therapeutic benefits. BDSM therapy is the new buzz phrase. Now, of course, studies reflect that there indeed are therapeutic benefits. We knew it all along. So while they were calling us deviant, locking us up, taking away our spawn, and calling us cuckoo - It was actually their fear that we would find out they were the ones who were damaged. I've been trying to find a vanilla sheeple I could have a relationship with - But, I'm closing in on being done with that endeavor. I now remember why I left the vanilla sheeple to start with....They are FUBAR! The closest I've come is black men, as they are intrinsically more dominant naturally by the nature of their culture. In particular, I have found that the hustlers (dealers), just like the white bikers I knew, have the concept with a clearer understanding than others. Unfortunately, they still are freaked out about our kinkiness. Wrap your head around that irony....Only gangsters get it because they operate in a hierarchal system. Sometimes, I think ignorance is bliss. Then I awaken, when I am doing a session, and the guy says he has been married for 30 years and never once has confided his fetishes to his wife. Yeah I don't want that kind of hell on earth ever. Nah, not signing up for a life of misery. It is that moment I feel so damned lucky to be aware and open with those who count. But back to therapeautic benefits... I have worked through the following damage list through the arts of BDSM, in particular D/s: 1. I no longer have nightmares that make me awaken screaming 2. I am able to now voice my feelings, desires and dislikes with equal thought and recognition of my coping mechanisms. 3. I have quit harming myself in seeking to dull the pain from childhood sexual traumas 4.I have learned being an empath makes me a better Domme. 5, I have embraced who I am and don't care if I make the vanilla sheeples uncomfortable, OK so I enjoy making them squirm and cast their judgmental perspectives. It actually makes me laugh. So tell me....Have you experiences traumatic releases and found BDSM therapy to work for you? How and what traumas? Song for this post Twisted - Joni Mitchell |
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My analyst told me That I was right out of my head The way he described it He said, "I'd be better dead than alive" I didn't listen to his jive I knew all along that he was all wrong And I knew that he thought I was crazy, but I'm not Don't know My analyst told me That I was right out of my head He said I need treatment But I'm not that easily led He said "I was the type that was most inclined" When out of his sight to be out of my mind And he thought I was nuts No more ifs or ands or buts They say as a child I appeared a little bit wild With all my crazy ideas But I knew what was happening, I knew I was a genius What's so strange when you know That you're a wizard at three? I knew that this was meant to be Now I heard little children were supposed to sleep tight That's why I got into the vodka one night My parents got frantic, didn't know what to do But I saw some crazy scenes before I came to Now do you think I was crazy? I may have been only three, but I was swinging They all laugh at angry young men They all laughed at Edison And also at Einstein So why should I feel sorry if they just couldn't understand The idiomatic logic that went on in my head I had a brain, it was insane Oh, they used to laugh at me when I refused to ride On all those double-decker buses All because there was no driver on the top Wait, no driver on the top? Men, the chick is twisted, crazy! It should be He flips cities My analyst told me That I was right out of my head But I said, "Dear doctor I think that it's you instead Because I, I got a thing that's unique and new To prove it, I'll have the last laugh on you 'Cause instead of one head I got two And you know, two heads are better than one"
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Hello! I missed you and your blog writings! I am too bizzy now, to read this blog, i will read it later. Glad to hear from you, again! Everything alright?? 
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I enjoyed reading your post
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I won't go into the traumas, but I can say that when my hairdresser asked me to remove the collar I was wearing I looked her straight on and told her I didn't have the key. I admit to having a sense of relief when I saw her raised eyebrow.
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I won't go into the traumas, but I can say that when my hairdresser asked me to remove the collar I was wearing I looked her straight on and told her I didn't have the key. I admit to having a sense of relief when I saw her raised eyebrow.
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Benefit #5 on your list made me smile. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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Although i am a submissive i think i've experienced similar benefits as you describe in #'s 2,3,and 5 with the following caveats. I have learned being open with my Dominant and understanding their needs and they mine has made me a better submissive. I am open with like minded people but given my occupation and where i live i can't afford to experience their judgmental views. i wish i was in a bigger city. It would be so much easier. thanks for a great blog!
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Hello! I missed you and your blog writings! I am too bizzy now, to read this blog, i will read it later. Glad to hear from you, again! Everything alright??
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I won't go into the traumas, but I can say that when my hairdresser asked me to remove the collar I was wearing I looked her straight on and told her I didn't have the key. I admit to having a sense of relief when I saw her raised eyebrow. 
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I enjoyed reading your post
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Maye it was a turn-on for her.
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Benefit #5 on your list made me smile.
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Although i am a submissive i think i've experienced similar benefits as you describe in #'s 2,3,and 5 with the following caveats. I have learned being open with my Dominant and understanding their needs and they mine has made me a better submissive. I am open with like minded people but given my occupation and where i live i can't afford to experience their judgmental views. i wish i was in a bigger city. It would be so much easier. thanks for a great blog!
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