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1 post 7/25/2023 1:56 pm |
Perfect! Thank you.
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good post agreed words are very powerful a D/s bond is a very intense connection mentally physically seXually spiritually everybody needs to listen up...hear compute understand listen let it resonate
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Yep....well said.....
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I just love Pink!
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Nicely said....... The fun part for me as a Dominant is being "emotionally manipulated" by my submissive. It is amazing, at times, to realize the degree of emotional control the submissive has over the Dominant. I take the words inside me and mull them over and formulate a new kink or a new direction and find a way to keep the excitement and intensity real. And I wouldn't have it any other way.
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Your points are well-taken, IP. A must-read for Doms, especially the sex-driven "fly by night kinksters." Everyone claiming to be masterful & perfect, needs to prioritize LISTENING and to stop with their narcissistic & captious ranting, critiquing, and filibustering...even if it might seem, at times--however idealistically & counterintuitively--, that it could ONLY take some applied restraints and an administered ball-gag, by a dismayed, fed-up, & vindictive sub to do it properly. Since that is clearly an unrealistic prospect, the good quiet introspective listeners among us can only be left to hope that blog posts such as this one get read and taken to heart by ALL readers, the thoughtfully reflective & taciturn, AS WELL AS, the interminably loquacious, bullying, & fault-finding "know-it-alls."
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When I started out in engineering I was told there was no such thing as perfection. Only the acuracy with which you measure something. (For instace: you measure something with a rule you might say it's exactly an inch long. But measure it with a micrometer & you might find it's longer than an inch, by 5 thousands of an inch.) No human is perfect at anything. If you were perfect you couldn't improve. We shouldn't aim to be perfect. We should aim to be continually improving. (Although some maybe so good at something, that they may appear perfect to those of us with lesser skills!) In terms of the lifestyle, I would say that it isn't only the sub who should be seeking to improve, but also the Dom. The problem with that is they would have to be very good at self assessing themselves. People in general,who tend to over critical of others often seem blind to their own short comings. Doms may like to use the saying about having two ears & one mouth, but it was originally intended for all of us. There are times when we should all talk less & listen more. Importantly we should also think about what we've learnt through that listening and act on those lessons. As you indeed said. But many on here are not Doms in the true lifestyle sense. They are just using the term to try & get what they want, without due regard for the subs needs. That is to say they might be termed, "Selfish Bastards".
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Thanks for sharing this brilliant piece. I would 150% agree with your statements. Especially, this one: "Words are tools, which can be used as helpful, encouraging, empowering, the calm in the storm, or weapons of mass destruction". I also love the last quote. I hope you are well.xx "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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Nice post. Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.
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this is awesome
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