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The Game Changer Epiphany  Epiphany is a glorious feeling. I suppose that's why they give it such a spiritual sounding name. I had such a name hit me this morning in an A'HA forehead slapping way. And it could only be achieved by me having a submissive that wasn't involved in sex, imagine that. Submissives typically do have character flaws that need management and guidance. This is the fuel that feeds the newly acquired Dominant. It keeps the Dominant actively engaged, while the submissive strives to meet the bar, and alter their negative behaviors' to a positive outcome. This continues on, throughout the relationship, as the dance we do. But, a Dom can only improve her so much, and then what do they do? I finally figured out why my best friend, a widowed slave, and myself have moved onto a different phase in our journey. We no longer need that constant guidance and training. After 20+ years, it becomes trivial to two grown ass women. It is why the natural progression was to become more dominant, and explore those depths. To hone skills that were from the other side, allowed us both to continue to grow, and not become stagnant. This is not to say, that certain dominant males could not achieve the position in modified form. However, the novice days are long gone, as are the chaotic lives, and people we used to be. Besides, I truly believe we make better dommes than we would have ever been, had we not submitted first. We've seen the whole puppet show, not just the players or the puppeteer. Walking in someone's shoes, makes all the difference in how you handle the road from then on. Just my two cents  Song for this post Old Enough - The Raconteurs with Ashley Monroe |
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You look pretty in your fancy dress But I detect unhappiness You never speak so I have to guess You're not free. There, maybe when you're old enough You'll realize you're not so tough And some days the seas get rough And you'll see You're too young to have it figured out You think you know what you're talking about You think it will all work itself out But we'll see When I was young I thought I knew You probably think you know too Do you? Well do you? I was naive just like you I thought I knew exactly what I wanted to do Well, what's you gonna do? And how have you gotten by so far Without having a visible scar? No one knows who you really are They can't see What's you gonna do (what's you gonna do) What's you gonna do now What's you gonna do (what's you gonna do) What's you gonna do now What's you gonna do (what's you gonna do) What's you gonna do now What's you gonna do (what's you gonna do) What's you gonna do now What's you gonna do now The only way you'll ever learn a thing Is to admit that you know absolutely nothing Oh nothing Think about this carefully You might not get another chance to speak freely Oh freely Maybe when you're old enough Maybe when you're old enough Maybe when you're old enough You're not free You're not free
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I know it may sound like old guard fantasy bs, but my personal belief is that a sub can grow into a Dominant, having experienced the "other side" be it temporary to have the experience of it, or longer term and grown into it. Just my opinion, I may be wrong. I've been wrong before, it was a Tuesday
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sometimes, it's a natural reaction to the other person. We slot in at the appropriate level.
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"We've seen the whole puppet show".......the show had a few good scenes but not enough for my liking.
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I know it may sound like old guard fantasy bs, but my personal belief is that a sub can grow into a Dominant, having experienced the "other side" be it temporary to have the experience of it, or longer term and grown into it. Just my opinion, I may be wrong. I've been wrong before, it was a Tuesday
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I think you're 2 cents is worth a lot more.lol. i agree that a sub can can grow into a Domme because experiencing the other side of the coin (pun intended) open up an understanding of what a sub requires that an exclusive Domme may not fully understand. After all a sub and Domme have completely different mindsets
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They’re a very fortunate sub indeed who benefits from your experience. It’s not a path I was ever inclined to follow, but on a related note it’s worth mentioning that in some leather circles a period in service is still considered de riguer for a would-be top. The few big-letter-types I’ve personally known who traveled that path for a time give every indication of being some of the most consistent, thoughtful, empathetic and effective on taking up their left-of-the-slash mantle.
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They’re a very fortunate sub indeed who benefits from your experience. It’s not a path I was ever inclined to follow, but on a related note it’s worth mentioning that in some leather circles a period in service is still considered de riguer for a would-be top. The few big-letter-types I’ve personally known who traveled that path for a time give every indication of being some of the most consistent, thoughtful, empathetic and effective on taking up their left-of-the-slash mantle. And that type of Dom, my friend, is you
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