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LouiLil 40F
17 posts
1/9/2020 3:45 am
Instant Messenger


Hey 😊

Not sure if it’s something I’m doing (or not doing) or if it’s a common thing with IMs but I can see that I get a in my alerts but when I go onto IM to look and to try and reply, the messages disappear!

I’m not ignoring anyone on purpose!

DancingDom 74M
22598 posts
1/9/2020 4:53 am

I wish I could help. But I suspect you are not a paid member. I don't think that it works unless both parties are paid members. Even when I was a Gold member, it never worked for me. Anyway, welcome to the blogs. Best to you. You will fnd, that there are way to communicate in these spaces. Most or perhaps I should say that most of the screen names are scammers and fakes.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


olderdaddy_63 68M

1/9/2020 5:15 am

Welcome. If you click on reply in the alert it will not show up when IM opens.
Open IM first then hit reply


mickjakker 51M
24 posts
1/9/2020 6:14 am

this i/m sucks!


swingclubber61 62M
9 posts
1/9/2020 9:10 am

This IM is unreliable at best


daddy2fuckuup2 64M

1/9/2020 2:42 pm

IM is pretty unreliable. Try not clicking on the alert but going to the IM. Are you using desktop or phone? The system can vary a lot depending on which you're using


BDSMCouple_SoCal 62M/59F  
636 posts
1/9/2020 10:11 pm

Also see if you are online or offline. The third button on the left on top of the screen will tell. It looks like a chat box with 3 buttons. Every so often its off on mine and I can't talk to people. Though with this IM its hard to talk with people anyways. Good luck.

Ms. Jay
bleash;


Stradolin 56M

1/10/2020 9:49 am

Yeah, this IM can be frustrating at best.


LordVladsMinion 45M

1/10/2020 11:19 am

Do not waste your time on IM. It is inhabited with loaded members(fake accounts, there to make you think people actually use this shit.) The other 10% are time wasters, fakes and malicious scammers.

Alt. doesn't care if you connect, make friends or have a fruitful experience using their junk site. It is a conduit for their other sites and scam show.

Buyer beware!


joeusemenow 58M
16 posts
1/10/2020 12:41 pm

and if you dont have points and are a free member you cant reply


Boggles2001 61M  
414 posts
1/14/2020 4:10 am

Unless i am wrong as a paid member if i IM someone i think they can reply free?..prepared to be contradicted though...


Venalicius_Prime 62M

11/27/2020 5:52 am

IM is as broken as it's ever been. It seems to censor msgs, assuming it allows them through.
Even between paying members.



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