Blog : Sex, Kink and Disability

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3/9/2020 2:42 pm

Sex, Kink and Disability

Hi everyone.

It took me such a long time to even openly acknowledge my disability, may it be permanent or, as I tell myself, temporarily, that it does not really surprise me to realize, that others on this site don't have a clue, how to deal with it.

Let me make one thing clear, I focus on physical disabilities. The disabled person needs under all circumstances to be capable to discuss their specific situation, to voice their particular demands and to give consent to whatever the individuals involved think they want to do.

Yes, I said demands. A disability does not, or at least should not, take anything off a person self confidence.

Having said all that, I would like to start a discussion about this issue, still a Taboo for many here. And you are more than welcome to participate. Just, please, keep it civil.

Lol - as civil as it can be on a site like Alt.

Pictures will be posted in the weeks to come.

So, go ahead and hit me with your feedback.

Thanks all

Martina

DancingDom 74M

22620 posts
3/9/2020 4:13 pm

Welcome to the blogs. Best to you.

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"

Martina_3 replies on 3/10/2020 3:40 pm:
Thanks for that insightful comment.

DarqueDauphin 70M

60 posts
3/9/2020 4:15 pm

If you care to share lust what your "disability" is, it could be helpful. Perhaps start with what you can and cannot do so others have a clue. Just using the word disability is quite ambiguous and leaves a lot to the imagination and quite frankly may dampen ones interest.I am not in your shoes so I do not know how the realization affected you but I think the term "physically challenged" would make accepting your status more palatable.

Martina_3 replies on 3/10/2020 3:40 pm:
Thank you DarqueDauphin,

of course, the main initiative to start this blog, was the fact that I have to use a wheelchair for a good part of the day.

However, the subject itself - sex&disability or lust&disability - still is somewhat taboo for a lot of people. That is the tree I want to shake.

Dreamcatcher__ 87M

7021 posts
3/9/2020 7:27 pm

Most of us are disabled some way or another... there's a sprocket loose somewhere. Most of us just haven't figured it out yet.

Martina_3 replies on 3/10/2020 3:35 pm:
Thank you for your comment. And thank you for making me laugh.

jenny14 75T

90475 posts
3/10/2020 2:33 am

Martina

Welcome to Bloglandia

I think you raise a very important subject! People with disabilities are human with human urges and frailties! They too have libido and can be as good as anyone but just not as physical in some areas!

I hope you stimulate interesting discussion

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny

Martina_3 replies on 3/10/2020 3:32 pm:
Jenny,
thank you.

And discussion is what I am hoping for.

I believe it goes down to the basic question, how we define sexuality.
When I read through profiles, I see that most are looking for physical attributes.
For me, sex is a mind game. Well, not that I am NOT looking for certain physical things, if y'all know what I mean. But overall, to me nothing is as sexy as a brain.

1959man1 65M

3/10/2020 6:24 am

it is always best to discuss anything that has to do with this life and being disabled shouldn't be any different than submission or domination

Martina_3 replies on 3/10/2020 3:25 pm:
I totally agree.


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