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KurtDecoy 61M
0 posts
4/7/2020 5:30 pm
Is a guy sucking dick submissive or dominant?
Is a guy sucking dick submissive or dominant?
It's submissive. He is taking the female role and sucking a dick. 100% Sub
It's dominant. He is taking the aggressive role and sucking a dick. 100% Dom


KurtDecoy 61M

4/7/2020 5:31 pm

 Answer what you think.


Subxx22Dan4Demi 68M

4/7/2020 7:19 pm

 Neither. A man might be a hedonist seeking sensations to experience, like me.


owned_one 55F
89 posts
4/7/2020 9:56 pm

 The act itself is neither submissive nor dominant. I think it depends entirely upon WHY he's sucking cock.

If he's sucking because someone told him to regardless of what he might want himself, that's being submissive to their wishes. If he's sucking because he wants to regardless of what the recipient might want, it's more dominant.


likesmatures 55M
4868 posts
4/8/2020 4:50 am

 I honestly wouldnt link his sexual orientation or sexual desires to a lifestyle position. We dont do that with women..

Sure some men incorporate m2m into the lifestyle and channel such play as a power exchange.

And alot don't

people enjoy sucking a cock...tops,verse,bottoms.....Doms,Dommes,subs,women etc.

Sucking a dick isnt like a hankie code..it doesnt make you the bitch.

Dont label a sexual act..just enjoy it for what it is


likesmatures 55M
4868 posts
4/8/2020 5:00 am

 No offense but i think your projecting into the act...

There is no " female role"...this is rather a passive and active event between two men. It doesnt have to mean one is dominant and the other submissive.

I had tops,Doms,Dommes suck my dick...without any inferreance that it was a bottom,sub lowering sorta activity.

Its a dick...it likes to be sucked..its not like a top suddenly asked me to paddle their ass..its not on that level..

Look at it this way...if a woman,sub,slut asks you to eat her out or give her an orgasm...does that mean your now submissive,a pussy boy..

Oh hell no..it means your a caring dude..

So why would you read into the act of sucking a dick..

Im not being a hard ass..i think cock sucking is a casual thing. But i think naturally breeding a guy ..whether fucking his ass with a cock or strap on...does convey a power exchange and sence of dominance over the bottom male. Both roles are clearly defined


gafferh 68M
308 posts
4/8/2020 5:12 pm

 Perspective then... From my point of view it's just exploring and experimenting with bi feelings I've had for years... Your view is your own perspective.



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