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How deeply even we bury desire. One major frustration I know I've felt of late, while doing the dance of trying date, or whatever it is one does at my age, is wondering when, if at all, I uncork the bottle of "btw, I'm a pretty filthy slut.". Granted, I also wonder when I'm supposed to tell people about my PTSD, too. But I know for a lot of people I've interacted with, it's one thing to have fantasies, it's another to have acted on them, and not once, while trying not to giggle like a schoolboy with a dirty magazine, but often, because a. it's enjoyable and satisfying, and b. it's who you are. And yet, even in a pretty safe place for deviance, like this, there are STILL things even I won't admit to getting VERY turned on at the mere idea of, things I'm not all that wiling to admit to. I can't be alone in that around here, can I? |
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We all have something - one thing - that we barely admit own up to to ourselves, let alone someone else.
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we all havr something
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Well, for that open up, about certain things, there needs to be a hell, i mean, a really big hell of trust... Before i would open up on certain things.... So long, i keep it all to myself.
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I imagine you and your private wild inclinations are not yours alone and only yours and mine and everyone... society may call for us to behave "normally" but doesn't almost everyone have some uniqueness of character, and something feral that is forever overwhelmingly exciting to fathom and behold, that we want to let out and run with and share? Except everywhere there is that vanilla normalcy, political correctness, which possibly is virtuous and necessary to keep society feeling stable and safe and comfortable in public to function and mingle in. And that question of when to open...it's so often ... it's a beautiful topic you ponder and I thank you for sharing it.
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I am absolutely obsessed with the concept of owning a hucow. I belong to the site Hucows.com. Absolutely nothing shocks me. Say hello if you see me here. My name is Tom
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I decided a while ago that I deserved to find someone who fulfilled most of my fantasies. (But not, of course, the one that involved the trombone and the armadillo  )So do you. (But not, of course, the one that involved the trombone and the armadillo.)
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Open communication based on trust,can allow that honesty to happen first to yourself and then any partner(s). If you do reach that with a partner, you may be able to dabble in those most hidden fantasies. You might find you revel in them or that once eh fantasy is fulfilled you may develop new ones. Or just plain let it go. Been there, done that, what's next often happens in this realm. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Also, regarding your prior post. I have thought about the idea of playing out that sort of bodice ripping Victorian attire as part of a scene. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I decided a while ago that I deserved to find someone who fulfilled most of my fantasies. (But not, of course, the one that involved the trombone and the armadillo )So do you. (But not, of course, the one that involved the trombone and the armadillo.)   
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"I can't be alone in that around here, can I?" No you can't. I've often wondered how one does approach someone not on here but just in normal life. You don't want to waste time with a vanilla relationship but yet you don't want to just jump in both feet first with "Oh, I like to tie women up and spank them" or whatever your likes might be. Piercings and tats are a good conversation starter to get your foot in the door. More than once I have seen wrong signals sent and interpreted very wrong. Once that monkey jumps out of the box you are saddled with it.....so you have to be careful. Some find a squeeze of the knee/leg or absent minded brushing of a breast or toying with a nipple through the dress is a good indicator. Maybe even ask innocently if they have read the book or seen the movie 50 Shades Of Gray......it will give you a good indication at least. If it is welcomed, go for it, if rebuked back off and just survive the rest of the date. Anyone else got some good advice on how to handle those first or second dates to find a kind friendly partner???
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I would say most of us here are the same. 
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open & honest is best policy you can’t hide who & what you are be yourself & tell them right away to avoid wasting time w buncha people who don’t matter or will be in your life!
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We will hope to fulfill our desires although not everything be ok with it
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Be honest with yourself then you can be alot more free as well and dont forget to try your titillations keep yourself not boxed up roam free
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Oh. I forgot about the armadillo-leprosy thing. I think I'm going to have to go cold turkey with members of the Dasypodidae family. Women who know stuff are hot. You are scalding. If you say any more smart things, I'm going to have to clone a younger version of myself and live vicariously through his ravishing of you. Or maybe just a little rav until he gets to know you better.
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I AM AGREE IN THE COMENTS OF THE PERSONS...GOOD BLOG BABY
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