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The use of pronouns by a Slave/Pet I just read a long post by someone claiming be in their second year of being a slave a Master and was trained by said Master. I lost count of the times the pronoun "I" was used. "Me" was also used in high numbers. Im not sure what Master would allow their slave/Pet retain "Self," but that dissolves the Master/slave relationship. If the slave has Self, then they are allowed think, do, be, and also leave as they have "worth" and don't need the bond for security. I won't tag them, but even if they are " acting," the Pet/slave can use IT or "your slave/Pet" instead of proper pronouns. I might expect too much, but I hope I can find a great new Pet to replace my LIL lost soul. UPDATE: after emails from friends, I will relent on the pronouns. I will try and refer to my pet as SHE/HER, and keep her mental well being forfront. Yes I am 47, and it might take a little while to change. But I will try. |
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I am an experienced real life domme. I think the pronoun issue is something you should take ownership of as your own issue and expectations and not judge others how they maintain their dynamic. I have a collared sub. I believe a healthy bdsm relationship that is psychologically safe has to have a human element. I aim to empower my subs through submission. Thus their submission to me elicits their acceptance of self, emotional release, and discovery of mental stregnth through pushing boundaries and testing limits. BDSM as as much psychological as it is sexual if not more so. I allow my sub to use whatever pronouns he or she wishes, a confident dominant in my opinion doesnt overcompensate with multiple petty rules... the more rules you give a sub the more you're setting them up to fail. I have a handful of "rules" which I strongly enforce and subsequently my sub is entirely obedient, diligent, committed and ambitious to please me in all my desires, hes willing to submit more and push himself more. I dont want to condition a slave to engage with me because he is entirely psychologically dependent in a way which over time may develop into a Stockholm syndrome kind of head space. I want a sub who surrendered control willingly and continues to do so. It's so much more fulfilling as a dominant knowing you are entirely worshiped and doted on in all your needs by somebody who is choosing to surrender themselves to you. 🤷🏻♀️
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4/17/2020 4:03 pm |
I understand your stance. I agree with the being totally dependent and it causing problems during and after their time with me. But only in their communications with me, do I not like "self" When they are with my daughter, pronouns are normal. You are reading more into my post. This is what i believe. I am not pushing my ideals. My Pets understand all of this before the contract is signed. and there is a "Break Phrase" for both of us if it just isn't working. There are some more parts, but I will IM you since I don't want part of it published for public view.
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