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Long Distance Love Affair What is it that I have for using song titles? Laughs. Everything in my life relates music. Long Distance relationships are their own special\l type of torture. The sweet exquisite yearning for someone out of your reach. The time spent in your mind, sharing thoughts , building expectations. From my life experience, this happens more in the lifestyle than in the vanilla world. It got me to thinking: why is that? Is it because, in our own deviant way, we are the last of the true romantics? I mean, we in the lifestyle are searching for that deep connection, that titillation, that high. Whether you are Dom/me or sub, no matter which subcategory you might fall into, we are each searching for that person who accepts us for who we are, accepts us completely, that person who completes us in the way that only a Dom/me and sub can complete each other. Just as every Dom want that person who will give themselves over and submit, every sub is looking for that person they can trust enough to give themselves and submit. And when you make that connection, is distance the deciding factor that keeps you apart? Or do you throw caution and common sense to the wind and take a chance? Which brings me to another song: ABBA Take a Chance on Me. Quite appropriate I think. |
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Distance is a factor. In the days of covid 19 it certainly is more noticeable. I surely is easier to develop a relationship f the parties are in close proximity to each other. This allows more regular contact and a better knowledge of who they are. Those long distance situations have an intensity, but if you look at the couple who were long distance and them moved in or certainly closer to each other allowing regular contact the failure rate seem proportional to the distance. Having said that, there are still couple who make it with a start via long distance. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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In todays world there are way's to see and talk to people a long way away. That really helps you get to know more about them and how they think. You no longer have just the writing word, you can see them, and hear them, in real time. Yes you may be a long way away from one another but you can get to know how they feel and when they say something you know the tone in their voice and how they talk so you know just what they mean. And not what you read into what they type. I not sure if anyone can understand all of that, but I am in just this kind of long distance relationship. We have been do this for well over a year now and Mistress still want me around. I feel blessed to have what we have. Thank You for you post.
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Honesty is the key.....if you cant be honest then any relation will die and when it comes to long distance relations if you cant meet him/her within the first month then dont start coz you can easily be decieved for many months before you accidently discover the TRUTH....the bitter truth!
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5/14/2020 7:38 pm |
If two hearts come together as one then time and space won't matter. you'll find a way to make it work, unless one of you are on the moon, then I think your chances are slim, otherwise don't let anything stop you.
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Haha i relate to the music thing. I think it happens more for us because we have a smaller pool to fish from so when you do find that connection you want to hang in and try to make it work. Like another has said, it's important to meet someone in real time so you know the connection is real. You can meet many great Dom/mes or subs but having that special connection is worth throwing caution to the wind and going for it. Regret is always what you haven't done afterall  I'll Be Waiting by Adele Life So Short, The Craft So Long To Learn
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"Absence makes the heart grow fonder". And then, eventually, it makes it grow cold. "A Hard Rain's A-Gonna Fall" “Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”
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Living through a few LDR's myself, I can tell you they are a lot of work. But the higher the fruit the sweeter the taste, as far as I'm concerned. Once I've found someone who can make me feel "cherished" and my every waking hour is spent thing about them in one way or another. I try to forget about the distance. I concentrate on my feelings. Great piece, thanks for sharing it. ~The Distance~Cake "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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