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THEpunkin 26F
343 posts
7/13/2022 11:49 am
setting an example


Some people say I am setting a bad example by condoning and basically glorifying things like having sex with family members and with people who are not of legal age to consent. In a sense they are correct but only if you assume everybody thinks the same way and believes the same things. Just like there are different religions there are different thoughts on just what age it would be healthy to begin having sex or whether or not having sex with a family member is good or bad. Biology makes it pretty clear you shouldn’t be getting your pregnant but barring that I know there is a fast growing community of people who think family love is absolutely the correct way to go. I’m not alone in this thinking in other words. That gives me some comfort.

Some people say I am setting a good example by at least showing how healthy and stable this kind of relationship can be. The fact that I share intimate details that showcase how loving and respectful my Daddy and I are to each other versus just being all pervy and sexy about it. I’m honest about our struggles but mostly just want everyone to see that it wouldn’t work if Papa weren’t the amazing parent he is AND I weren’t the good girl he needs me to be. We are a very good team when you take away the sexy taboo parts which is super important in any long lasting relationship. We balance each other and take up slack when it is needed. I might make it sound like I’m practically a spoiled brat but the bottom line is that if one of us wasn’t doing their part we wouldn’t be as happy and content as we are. Hoping people see that and understand I’m not just writing about a fantasy but a real life being lived is my goal.

We live in a very permissive time right now. The craziest wonkiest potentially off-putting belief or attitude can find a lot of traction and followers these days. For some people things like sex with young people and with your family members has always been desirable. There are plenty of detractors but it’s not some new problem it’s something that at least a select few have always wanted. I think more than would admit actually but that’s just me. I think most normal men crave young flesh though the average guy might not dream of violating his own . Most men that are not sexually satisfied will try a lot of things to get off but keeping it in the family might not be one of them. Having sex with the little girl down the street might be a different story. Society has deemed these things wrong or immoral even though the yearning seems to be quite natural for some just like attraction to the same sex is for some. When you’re born attracted to the same sex that’s okay but when you’re born attracted to youngsters it’s not? That’s a tough one for some but a no-brainer to people like my Father and I. We feel we are neither denying nature nor setting a bad example. We are genuinely aroused by what we do and genuinely happy in the life we’ve chosen so there’s nothing regrettable going on. To us that’s setting a very good example.

jaykay48 75M
11457 posts
7/14/2022 7:33 am

I won't pass judgment on your past, where as a child your biological father had intimate contact with you. You stated that for a while when you reached puberty, you allowed guys to use you disrespectfully, and I am sure there are many reasons why young women allow that to happen to them, (Not that you care) so I will not try and analyze what your reasons were.

The bottom line is, that you are aroused by having an emotional, spiritual, and sexual relationship with a father figure. You have found a willing partner who plays the role of a father figure, and is aroused by playing this role, but he is not your actual father.

You refer to him as "my father," which I wonder if you do to shock your readers. (That is, the people who have not bothered to read your earlier posts where you write about you and your sister's actual uous relationship with your biological father and then explain that you have found someone who is the love of your life who continues to play this role, though just happen to be an older man who is in synch with you.)

Reading about this current relationship with "your father" is actually quite delightful, and your photos seem to show you quite happy. To me, this is the most important thing. There are loads of "normal" people living loveless, monogamous relationships devoid of sex and passion, and I think those people are living unhealthy lives. I really do believe that you and your partner have found the right roles to play with each other, and I applaud your courage and strength of spirit to pursue this life. You really do not need to justify anything.
(And your photos are adorable.)



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