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Big Things - Little Things and Marriage - sara Big Things - Little Things and Marriage - sara At last BIG things or little things are being talked about in our community so here is some background to give the ones not on the know, the know. Things have been talked about for weeks or even months between our elders and has even spread to the adults of the of the community first, then their . So BIG, little things, what can it mean, well its all dependent on which end of the belt your stood, discipline and in particular, weekly, or monthly maintenance. We can leave the under s out of the debate but indirectly it does affect them as they read adulthood. Each home is run CDD, that's Christian Domestic Discipline, a person, nearly always your Father but could be an older brother if no Father or even Grandpa if no males. The name of the instigator is HoH, Head of House, who, as the title depicts, is the boss/head of his house and all under its roof, be it family or visitors. Also understand, whoever's home you are in, under his roof, is also your HoH and can, will and does issue spankings at best, beltings at worst. Looking at my situation months ago, i have a and older brother and an older Sister so I as the youngest girl am at the bottom of the pile in rank so top of the pile when it comes to a spanking being given to. Even if I wanted to, a girl should not spank a boy, but a boy can and will spank any girl in the house, older or . So fast forward to Sunday morning, in our house 3 needed their weekly maintenance, mum, me and older sister. Mine was over 2 pillows, Fathers belt playing a tune on my bottom and I used to get 10 stripes of the cane on the sit spot then once turned it went to stripes. At church a few hours later we were to sit on hard pews, it was easy to see who had been caned their fidgeting. Sitting almost an hour on a caned bottom brought out the bruising, the bruising lasted a few days and was supposed to remind you of your past weeks wrongdoings and focus your mind on the week ahead. Also to be a good girl at all times and help as many as people as you can. Its also a reminder of what happens if you are not. Right, now to the findings, all DD has to be toned right down and confiscation of privileges put in their place. That does not mean no more spanking, the confiscation replaces the belting. Maintenance has also been toned down, right down in some cases to, NON. Fathers/husbands have to discuss with their daughters/wives their view and come to some agreement as all punishments are agreement. So whats it like for me at home, not much change, father is old school but with Sir Don, for maintenance, less belt and max 5 stripes For a punishment or his pleasure, more spankings, as in, breakfast and bedtime, and lighter beltings for serious offences as in disobedience, still belt but max now of 10 cane stripes. All the above may seem not too interesting for some who read this but for girls like me, a huge step forward. Marriage. As i come towards the end of my training with Sir i will move back to my parents to live, which is only 10 minutes away once Covid 19 is under control. I will be prepared for marriage, here is an insight into how it will work for me. Almost 100 % of us girls are married back into our faith and I would think most if not all boys are too. Parents usually find their a good prospect for marriage and the girl is encouraged to date, maybe like olden days. Its not compulsory of course though if she did not fancy him, it would not take place and she would have the last word. If it works out then the boys parents agree a type of dowry with the girls parents. This is to ensure the will be kept in the same manner she was brought up in. After initial dating they would spend time together at each other’s houses. Later in the relationship the girls Father would teach him how to discipline her in the way she has become used to, hard enough for her to take note of the situation, and mark her but not too harsh to harm her. When sleeping at his house, she is under his Fathers roof and would be disciplined him, and regularly, as if at home, and she would obviously be ready to thank him as he required. If his Father is out then the oldest brother would take his place. The reason so many marry into our faith is you know what you will be getting, a boy gets a full time sub for not only love but regular and for his disciplinary pleasures, plus he can put her to any man he feels like if following a DD relationship. The DD relationship is not a natural follow on in our community, maybe 10%, but only guessing at that figure. A girl gets the love, security, trust and respect of a man who will bring her up in the way she has been trained from birth. Dont forget a girl likes a different cock now and again, how many married girls in this world can say that?  |
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Very interesting reading Sara . Very well phrased and worded.. I like the ending a lot .... your Friend. Tew .
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Well uhm.....I think it's way too bulky to read as a post
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Thanks for the insight
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