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Its just a matter of opinion So recently I have come across a few men I have spoken to, who have caused me to stop, and question a few things about sexual relationships. I am not here to preach or to debate, I will just attempt to put my thoughts down in this blog. In a sexual relationship/understanding/dynamic, if the female is expected to give fellatio as a part of the time, why is it not something a woman should expect also? I was very surprised to find that not all men will engage in the act of performing fellatio,, but they do expect their partner to do so. It has surprised me. I have come to see that for me I live by.. "no get, no give" I just find it very interesting, even with me, that a bj was just a routine part of sex. But as I have explore things and have discovered new way of enjoyment that I now kind of hope that mutual fellatio is part of the fun.  I also am curious if those who are dominants, do they think that performing fellatio is somehow not a dominate act? I just don't see it that way, especially if said subbie is tied up and unable to resist I am just curious of others opinions and others views. I hope to get opinions on both side of the /. Thanks so much for visiting...  |
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I enjoy performing/giving head,eating pussy, cunnilingus or whatever you wish to call it to a woman. I have never demanding a woman to do similar on me. But I don't complain when they do. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Well hush0101 . . I consider myself the Dominant of the pair, with a live-in sub. She is well trained. . very obedient. . . but we tend to share most sexual arrangements on a 50/50 basis. She, without me Instructing her, automatically bj's me . . . . .and because we both enjoy it, I lick, and eat her pussy frequently. Mutual pleasures shared . . .has always been our arrangement.. I would treat any woman the same provided she is shaved or waxed. . . .just cannot stand little curly hairs in my mouth . . . lol
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My preference has always been to give rather than to receive. I never considered it not dominant since it was always something I was very eager to do. I also always felt in control when performing oral sex. I'm always surprised when I hear about men who do not do this.... to be fair though... its one of those things in life that if you dont enjoy doing it, you probably are lousy at it.
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I have never thought that giving fellatio makes me less of a Dom. It's something I enjoy very much.
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Being the D in our relationship... there are days where I will tie his ass down and simply have my way. I like to play and explore. Will he be allowed to finish? Who knows, it depends on my mood.  I really don't care who calls what activity what... D or s. I simply engage in what I enjoy, as is my prerogative as a D. And if a boy is unwilling to take care of me... his lips on my bits... he has no chance of being mine. Period.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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10/30/2021 6:20 pm |
Going down on a woman gives me a great deal of control over her. The more control I have the better I like it. I can really get into it. A woman's pussy is amazing in structure and sensitivity. Control her pussy and she's putty in my hands. I can fully control her orgasm when my mouth is on her pussy. Something that I enjoy immensely. She will say or do anything in the heat of passion. Just my thoughts and experiences.
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If someone is not willing to eat me when I play with them, then I will not play with them again. It is a two way street in my mind. I am fortunate that my Master enjoys eating me since I enjoy pleasing and pleasuring Him.
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Hush0101, as quite as it's kept, the person giving the head is really the one in control. As a Dom it's fun to put a submissive in bondage and eat the pussy, keeping her right on the edge of orgasm or giving her orgasms in rapid succession. Think about that Hush0101 
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Maybe I am a freak. As a sub, I find it very uncomfortable for a Dom to go down on me. Not saying I do not enjoy it, but that is just my mind set.
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Whether Dom or sub...every guy should luv to orally pleasure a woman... If not...then why would you get with him
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I love this probably more than any other sexual activity. One of my favorite things to do, explore my lover with my mouth and tongue. Not just with me lying between her legs either, I like to be on my ass on the floor with her standing naked before me, I like to sit in the shower and eat her as the hot water washes over her body, I like to pull her on top of me facing away, so I can view her lovely bottom as I lick and suck her off. Many other positions. The point being, eat her if she desires it, its wonderfully satisfying.
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Always has to be a shared experience !
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I love giving head, i realy do. Wantingto go down on me, is a big no no! I dont get pleasure from that act, at all it is more like; "wake me, when you are done"- kind of boring! I know a lot of men dont believe that, and always wanted to prove, that the way they did lick, suck.. was The holy Grail! NO way in Hell! No interesse, at all whip me with a heavy horsetail whip? Oh, Yeah! please do! 
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12/28/2021 5:56 am |
I agree with drmgirl622... “has to be a shared experience.” 😋
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4/21/2022 8:16 am |
Obviously it all depends on the relationship... while I love to receive... I also enjoy giving... and with a like minded female... such as yourself... having your sexual partner lay back... spread her legs open and raise her knees to give full access to her most female area is a delight... for me... exploring that playground full of “sexual toys” is fun and exciting... viewing the area... opening the lips... watching the clit grow and harden with stimulation... licking... exploring her pee hole... fingering the vaginal tunnel... licking... which leads to her G-spot and cervix... watching her ooze her sexual fluids... licking... fingering her ass... having that control to make her cum over and over... is extremely erotic for me... and conversely... having her slowly explore my male parts... licking... cock... sucking... balls massaging... ass... prostate gland... milking... making me cum... is equal sexual pleasure. Agree? 😊
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5/7/2022 12:15 pm |
Personally, I am much more aroused by giving cunnilingus than receiving fellatio. And, I have rarely climaxed receiving fellatio in comparison to the times I have brought a woman to climax giving her cunnilingus. I especially enjoy giving a woman head while she is in bondage (see pic). I love her squirming and screaming on her way to and at climax (I'm rock hard at this point). I do not mean the following as an insult to women, but many may see fellatio as simply foreplay. And, in all fairness, a cock in one's mouth for an extended period of time is grueling, especially if the cock is extremely thick. The jaw aches. Yet, eating pussy is a cake walk in comparison in my humble opinion. My last sub/slave/ex did have a technique that was extremely effective bringing me to climax: She would hold the cock gently as she swished her tongue from side to side on the underneath part of the cock. I have an extremely sensitive cock, so this more subtle and soothing method forced me to stop, or I would come in her mouth before we could fuck. Then, there is the cum. The taste of semen can be repulsive to a woman, or a man for that matter, depending on ones physical health, diet, exercise, hydration, etc. A woman's vagina is, I suppose, regulated by the same rules, but I seem to have never had the misfortune to be with a woman whose vaginal fluids offended me. But, I digress. I love oral sex and continue to be amazed at the male of the species sometimes appearing to be so one sided and selfish.
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5/30/2022 10:40 pm |
If your partner really enjoys it, it is a great tool to have. Especially if you are into orgasm denial or edging because when you really connect with your partner and know exactly when they are about to hit that peak you just back off, hope y'all get the picture. It is always something I like to include if it fits that session.
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8/13/2022 2:32 pm |
As you find joy in serving, your actions should be an act of love and therefore require no return from your counterpart . However, Master/slave, Dom/sub, Husband/wife, whatever, The sex will always be better when each partner strives to push those limits which peak the others responses. Is it a Master thing to not respond mutually? I don't believe so. I take a particular enjoyment in pushing a female to a point of sheer physical exhaustion/collapse by whatever means is available. Hands, mouth, toys or using you till we both collapse. Its sort of a challenge to me. The arrangement between the two should include talking (and working out) new and exciting ideas.
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